These Are the Biggest Disability-Related Events in Each State

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Below are many of 2015’s conferences, advocacy events, fundraisers and sporting events geared toward people with disabilities. There’s a lot going on, and we’d love to hear from you if you attend any of these this year. And if you or someone you love plan to attend an event not mentioned on this map, please include any information about it in the comment section below.

Scroll down for the biggest disability-related events in each state.

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Alabama

Alabama Assistive Technology Expo and Conference
Auburn, Alabama
October 20-21, 2015

Alaska

The Arc Dreamweaver Luncheon
Anchorage, Alaska
May 28, 2015

Arizona

Arizona Special Olympics Summer Games
Glendale, Arizona
May 7-9, 2015

Americans With Disabilities Act 25th Anniversary Gala + Awards Ceremony
Tempe, Arizona
July 18, 2015

Arkansas

Developmental Disabilities Provider Association 9th Annual Spring Conference
Little Rock, Arkansas
May 18-20, 2015

Arkansas Special Olympics Summer Games
Searcy, Arkansas
May 21-23, 2015

California

Special Olympics World Games
Los Angeles, California
July 25-August 2, 2015

Superfest Film Festival
San Francisco, California
November 14-15, 2015

Colorado

15th Annual Coleman Institute Conference on Cognitive Disability and Technology
Broomfield, Colorado
October 15, 2015

Connecticut

St. Vincent Special Needs and Kristin Nicole Appleberg Golf Tournament
Trumbull, Connecticut
June 1, 2015

*18th Annual Arc Quinebaug Valley Rubber Duckie Race Fundraiser
Danielson, Connecticut
August 9, 2015

Delaware

Run, Walk & Roll 2015
Wyoming, Delaware
May 2, 2015

Florida

DisAbilities Expo
Davie, Florida
October 3, 2015

Georgia

Premier Conference on the Americans With Disabilities Act
Atlanta, Georgia
May 10-13, 2015

*Summer Institute on Theology and Disability
Atlanta, Georgia
May 26-29, 2015

Hawaii

Pacific Rim Conference on Disability and Diversity
Honolulu, Hawaii
May 18-19, 2015

Idaho

Sprout Disability Film Festival
Boise, Idaho
April 30-May 2, 2015

Illinois

*Abilities Expo
Chicago, Illinois
June 12-14, 2015

*12th Annual Disability Pride Parade
Chicago, Illinois
July 18, 2015

ReelAbilities Film Festival
Chicago, Illinois
September 10-13, 2015

7th Annual disABILITY Resource Expo
Champlain, Illinois
October 18, 2015

Indiana

*National Disability Rights Network Annual Conference
Indianapolis, Indiana
June 1-4, 2015

Sprout Disability Film Festival
Indianapolis, Indiana
October 3, 2015

The Arc National Convention
Indianapolis, Indiana
October 3-5, 2015

Iowa

Iowa Special Olympics Summer Games
Ames, Iowa
May 21-23, 2015

Kansas

The Arc Annual Art Show
Wichita, Kansas
July 29-August 2, 2015

Kansas Department of Education Annual Conference
Wichita, Kansas
October 27-28, 2015

Kentucky

*National Sibling Leadership Conference
Louisville, Kentucky
May 30-31, 2015

American Association of Intellectual and Developmental Disabilities
Louisville, Kentucky
June 1-4, 2015

Louisiana

2015 Disability Rights Day
Covington, Louisiana
April 29, 2015

Maine

Maine Special Olympics Summer Games
Orono, Maine
May 5-7, 2015

Maryland

*World of Possibilities Expo
Timonium, Maryland
May 2, 2015

Sprout Disability Film Festival
Columbia, Maryland
June 21, 2015

Massachusetts

Abilities Expo
Boston, Massachusetts
September 18-20, 2015  

Michigan

2015 Learning Disabilities Association Conference
East Lansing, Michigan
May 1, 2015

Michigan Association on Higher Education and Disability
East Lansing, Michigan
May 15, 2015 

Minnesota

ReelAbilities Film Festival
Minneapolis, Minnesota
June 11-14, 2015

*Association on Higher Education and Disability Conference
Minneapolis, Minnesota
July 13-18, 2015

Mississippi

Mississippi disAbility MegaConference
Jackson, Mississippi
June 18-19, 2015

Missouri

The Arc Annual Golf Tournament
St. Louis, Missouri
May 18, 2015

Montana

Montana Special Olympics 2015 Big Sky Area Games
Bozeman, Montana
April 29, 2015

Nebraska

Disability Rights Nebraska Social Role Valorization Workshop
Lincoln, Nebraska
May 19, 2015

Nevada

National Association of Councils on Developmental Disabilities
Sparks, Nevada
July 21-22, 2015

37th Annual Conference on Learning Disabilities
Las Vegas, Nevada
October 1-2, 2015

New Hampshire

New Hampshire Special Olympics Summer Games
Durham, New Hampshire
June 5-7, 2015

New Mexico

2015 Southwest Conference on Disability
Albuquerque, New Mexico
October 6-9, 2015 

New Jersey

Abilities Expo,
Edison, New Jersey
May 1-3, 2015

New York

*Young Adult Institute International Conference on Intellectual and Developmental Disabilities
New York, New York
May 4-7, 2015

*Sprout Disability Film Festival
New York, New York
May 5, 2015

*27th Annual Developmental Disabilities Awareness Day Conference
Niagara Falls, New York
May 28, 2015

Disability Mentoring Day
Syracuse, New York
October 21, 2015

North Carolina

Diversity Matters National Conference
Charlotte, North Carolina
October 21-24, 2015

North Dakota

The Arc Inter-Agency Picnic
Grand Forks
June (date TBA), 2015

Ohio

Tech II: Technology Toward Employment Conference
Columbus, Ohio
May 13-15, 2015

Oklahoma

The Arc’s 20th Annual Shot in the Dark Golf Tournament
Tulsa, Oklahoma
May 8, 2015

Oklahoma Special Olympics Summer Games
Stillwater, Oklahoma
May 13-15, 2015

Oregon

Sprout Disability Film Festival
*Eugene, Oregon
May 6, 2015
*Bend, Oregon
May 8, 2015
Corvallis, Oregon
May11, 2015

Behavior Management Strategies for Students With Disabilities
Portland, Oregon
October 8-9, 2015

*2015 The Association for the Severely Handicapped (TASH) Conference
Portland, Oregon
December 2-4, 2015

Pennsylvania

Sprout Disability Film Festival
Bethlehem, Pennsylvania
April 25, 2015

World Conference on Special Needs Education
Philadelphia, Pennsylvania
August 17-20, 2015

Rhode Island

Rhode Island Special Olympics Summer Games
Kingston, Rhode Island
May 29-31, 2015

*The Arc Quinebaug Valley Golf Tournament
Foster, Rhode Island
July 10, 2015

South Carolina

South Carolina Special Olympics Summer Games
Columbia, South Carolina
May 1-3, 2015

South Dakota

South Dakota Special Olympics Summer Games
Chamberlain, South Dakota
May 28-30, 2015

Tennessee

Disability MegaConference
Nashville, Tennessee
May 21-22, 2015

Texas

Abilities Expo
Houston, Texas
July 31-August 2, 2015

*Cinema Touching Disabilities Festival
Austin, Texas
November 6-7, 2015

Utah

Utah Special Olympics Track and Field Competition
Logan, Utah
April 25, 2015

Vermont

Summer Olympics Summer 2015 Games
Burlington, Vermont
May 29-31, 2015

Virginia

Sprout Disability Film Festival
Arlington, Virginia
May 4, 2015

The Arc of Virginia’s State Convention
Virginia Beach, Virginia
August 10-12, 2015

Washington

Behavior Management Strategies for Students With Disabilities
Seattle, Washington
May 7-8, 2015

*Seattle Commission for People With disAbilities
Seattle, Washington
3rd Thursday of every month

Washington, DC

*ReelAbilities Film Festival
Washington, DC
April 26-May 3, 2015

*M-Enabling Summit
Washington, DC
June 1-2, 2015

*Annual Conference on Independent Living
Washington, DC
July 27-30, 2015

Abilities Expo
Washington, DC
December 4-6, 2015

West Virginia

Walk/Run for Independence
Huntington, West Virginia
July 4, 2015

Wisconsin

Disability Pride Festival
Madison, Wisconsin
July 25, 2015

Wyoming

Wyoming Special Olympics Summer Games
Statewide
May 7-9, 2015 

The Arc Oktoberfest Fundraiser
Cheyenne, Wyoming
September 26, 2015

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To my son,

I don’t know how to start, as there are a lot of things that are bothering me so much nowadays, especially from the time we learned your condition, or as it’s medically right to be called, your disorder. For a while, I tried to divert my observations into exaggerations, but I knew in my heart something wasn’t right. You’re somehow more special than I expected.

Let me come back from the day that I learned that I was pregnant with you. As was the case with your sister, I never expected you, but I dearly learned to love you from the time I knew that you were there inside me. There is nothing that I can compare to the time I heard your heartbeat. It was so strong, telling me how excited you were to finally meet me. As far as I remember, everything was pretty normal from the time I conceived you until birth. You have always been quiet, and I barely had any discomfort.

My labor with you was very short. I just needed to push a couple of times and there you were, crying too loudly because, for the first time, you were apart from me. After a few minutes, you were laid on my body and I will never, ever forget the first time I touched your small hands. You had so much hair then. And from the time you heard my voice assuring you that you’re with me, you just stopped crying.

As early as your first and second months, you were diagnosed with asthma. Most of the time, we’re visiting your doctor and you are even being hospitalized for at least a couple of days. We usually can’t easily bring you out of the house, as you can get irritated with a sudden change in weather and even the temperature of your surroundings. You don’t have any idea how much it kills me to see you in pain or having difficulty breathing. You even learned to use your nebulizer before you even learned to walk because you know that this is the only thing that can help you to lessen your discomfort.

Lately, you’ve been well. I think you’ve been coping better with your asthma, plus you are gaining weight and it’s been a while since we visited your closest friend, your pediatrician. But there is something that I’ve been discovering about you day after day… you have difficulty walking most of the time. You do stumble as if the bones in your feet are not strong enough. I haven’t heard you using any clear words except the word “Ma.” Most of the time, you make continuous and identical sounds and honestly, we can’t understand what it means. You move your head as if it’s spinning without worrying about bumping your head somewhere.

Most of the time, you play on your own. You hate attention, especially from an unfamiliar face. You even resist looking at them in their eyes. It’s been almost a year since I started looking for answers on what might be your condition and recently, after talking with different people who can help, they suspect that you might be within the spectrum. It was hard to comprehend. The first question was, did I do anything to you to be like this or is there anything that I should have done that I did not do?

I love you and I will always love you every day of my life. I will not be able to promise you paradise, as this world is full of cruelties. But I will make sure that I will be forever on your side. We will be in this together with your dad and your sister and especially God. I want you to know that you’re precious, very special in a lot of ways.

Let me tell you that every day will always be an extraordinary day to me every time I get to look into your eyes, even if you were not able to tell me anything, not even a word. But your eyes say so much, like that you do miss me during the time I am away and how much you love me. It always makes me feel so much of gratitude, the way you look into my eyes.

I will forever love you and I will do everything to help you and guide you. I know we have a long way to go. It’s just a start, but I pledge to always be with you through every part until you reach the best as you can be. I love you.

Love,

Mommy

(I wrote this letter for my son, Aeron, in 2009, the time when he was diagnosed. One reason why I wrote this letter is that I believe that one day he will be able to read this. He will get a chance to be a well-functioning child and even adult.)

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This would be one of those touchy subjects that people try to avoid. It is one of those proverbial elephants in the living room. Please know I’m not writing to offend. I’m writing to help others understand how to treat those who may have children that are a bit different than your child or my child.

First, we should consult Webster… such a smart chap.

Special: Adjective

1. Better, greater or otherwise different from what is usual.

2. Belonging specifically to particular person or place.

3. Designed or organized for a particular person or place.

WAIT! Special seems like a great word! Don’t tell me you are offended, Mrs. Autism Mama?!

Offended, not exactly. Cringing and feeling the hair on the back of my neck stand up, yes.

I’m not sure what it is, but I think it is just a bad phrase. We don’t look at someone and say, “God only gives cancer to special people.” So why in the world would we say it to the parent of an autistic child or the parent of a child with cerebral palsy, or Down syndrome? I lost my daughter in 2004 after she battled Congenital Heart Disease for nine long months. I heard similar phrases then.

“You and Allen are special people and God gave you a special child.” (Insert sigh here.) We are not special at all. We pushed through a horrible situation and we had LOADS of support and help. In private, the raw side of pain was ever present. The same applies today.

“God will not give you more than you can bear.” I love the Lord Jesus with all my heart, and I believe this statement… but it is not a comfort when walking in the darkness.

“You are so strong and courageous.” HAHAHAHA (sorry). I have a mad poker face. Anyone who knows me realizes that it is the face I wear 99 percent of the time. My strong face and what is happening inside me are two totally different things. I am probably one of the most emotionally drained individuals you will ever meet… but thanks to God, I managed then and I’m managing now.

Being the parent of a child with special needs is hard, people.

I don’t know if I will ever be able to put into words how hard it is seeing your child struggle. I understand that it is nearly impossible to understand the hardship of being this type of parent when you haven’t lived it. I get it. I don’t expect you to understand, but I do expect you to think before you speak. I do expect you to thank God every day for your perfectly typical child and not complain about how much they talk or annoy you. I do expect you to do research on autism rather than assume. And please, for the love of all things good and holy, do not tell me that my son acts exactly like Sally Jo’s son…. and oh yeah, he is 18 years old now and still doesn’t speak. So GOOD LUCK.

I do expect you to offer prayers rather than flimsy statements. I do expect you to be a friend if you truly are one. I don’t discount other struggles. I don’t think my struggle is harder than the struggle of someone watching their Mom die of some incurable disease. Trials are hard when they are happening, no matter what the situation. However, when your child is involved, it is truly heartbreaking. When you are raising a child with special needs, the future is terrifying and no amount of “special” parenting will take that fear away.

So what is the solution? The solution is simple. Be real. Tell the parents of these children what a good job they they are doing. Encourage them. Pray for them, frequently. More than that… pray for the child. Make these parents smile and laugh. Read about autism or the type of therapy the child is doing and educate yourself. Learn what makes the child happy and involve them. The parent and child will love you unconditionally for this simple deed.

Special needs parents are not special at all. They are simply parents. Can their road be tough? Absolutely. Just remember we are dealing with it. We have good days and bad days, just like others. We need your support, love and understanding. In reality, those are things that help us survive and thrive.

Special needs parents probably feel less special than you will ever imagine. They want their child to be loved, accepted, healed and helped. Their minds are consumed with the child or children they are caring for and the only thing driving them in most cases is the motherly instinct to help their child be all he/she can be considering the disability or syndrome.

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This is (more) proof that nurses care deeply about their patients.

The video below, posted to YouTube last week, shows a patient named Bailey with her favorite nurse. Bailey experienced complete paralysis from the waist down for 11 days with no explanation as to its cause, according to the YouTube video.

When Bailey suddenly started walking again, she decided to surprise her nurse with the good news.

Watch her sweet reaction in the video below: 

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Three and a half years ago, my son, Ethan, was diagnosed at the age of 21 months with high risk acute lymphoblastic leukemia (ALL). As you can imagine, our world stopped. We had just found out three days earlier that I was pregnant with our sixth baby. Life as we knew it was to become one of hospitals, pokes, spinal taps, chemo, blood transfusions and on and on and on.

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Ethan 11 (1) On October 23rd, we were to celebrate his birthday. By this point, news of our week-long celebrations had hit the media and spread its way across the world. We began receiving packages and cards from across the United States and from other countries. People throughout our community banned together for our sweet boy. We had a parade with many participating — local police, Fantasy Con characters, a local Airsoft company and so many others. He was knighted, got to sit on a police motorcycle and met some of his favorite superheroes! The day also included custom-made cake and many presents and cards.

October 24th was our “Christmas Eve.” We were greeted that evening by hundreds of carolers on our front lawn, complete with a live nativity scene. Santa Claus and Mrs Claus arrived in a fire truck and took our family for a ride. After a private moment with Santa Claus, we went on a wagon ride around our neighborhood to see Christmas lights that our neighbors had put up early. We came home to literally hundreds of presents scattered throughout our home.

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On October 25th, we celebrated a private Christmas as a family. Soon after gifts were opened, Ethan got very sick. He passed away three days later.

Some would say that this was an incredible act of kindness for an incredible little boy, which it was. However, it was more than that. Those are memories that will never be replaced. Memories that I cling to six months later.

That week restored my faith in humanity. It helped me see how many good people there are throughout the world.

For one week, the world stopped (at least it seemed like it did to us) to honor one special boy in his last moments on earth. That is incredible. That is love.

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The Moment My Nurse Became My Hero

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Dear Nurse,

The first words I think you deserve the most are “thank you.” The list of everything I am grateful for would fill a 200-page book. So I thought I should tell you some of the things that make you stand out from so many others in your field.

Hearing your voice as you walked in the room to say “hi” on your day off after a meeting brought a big smile to my tear-stained face. Not many nurses would do that for patients on days when they’re not required to be taking care of them. But you didn’t stop there. I know that Patient Controlled Analgesia (PCA) pump was a pain in the butt, but you never showed the frustration that I’m sure it brought with it. Speaking of frustrations, those veins of mine… thank you for always believing me when I say they’re going bad (I’ve yet to be wrong) and calling the IV team one to two times per shift.

I know coming in every hour to give me some type of medicine was probably tiring, but it was very much appreciated. The fact that we always both requested each other during your shifts made us a pretty great team.

I’m sorry for the person I turned into while on such a high dose of those steroids; I think we both know that’s not the normal me. But thank you for taking the time to get down to eye level and ask what you could do to help me. Thank you, once again, for advocating for me and reaching out to the doctors after I had already attempted talking to the doctors about my feeding tube being messed up. Thank you for getting the ball rolling so that I could have it replaced.

I truly loved and enjoyed hearing all the stories you had to tell me about things outside of the hospital, like your puppies and how they’re doing, because, for once, it makes me forget about “On a scale of 1-10, how’s your pain?” I can’t tell you how wonderful it was for you to take the time to actually wash my hair with real water and real shampoo and not the shower caps. Not once has any other nurse offered me that option, but you did it without even me asking. And I can’t tell you how great it felt to feel somewhat normal.

This next part is probably going to make me tear up, but it’s worth writing about. That Monday started off like any other Monday had been during the last couple Mondays in the hospital. You’re bright smile came shining in with my 8 o’clock meds, we filled each other in on the weekend, and you went to eat your second breakfast. Physical therapists came and saw how much I had declined over the weekend, and I told you after my next dose of pain meds I wanted to try again. So we did, and after getting halfway to the nurses’s station even you were surprised at how bad my balance was that day, and I mentioned being really dizzy. So back to the room we went.

That’s when you noticed the my left pupil was dilated and unresponsive. I could tell you were freaking out yet trying to keep calm, and I appreciated that because it kept me calm. You rubbing my shoulder telling me I was going to be okay really meant a lot. I remember you calling the ACT team and a bunch of doctors suddenly standing all around me doing a bunch of tests and bright lights. I was dizzy, had a bad headache and severe nausea. The next thing I know I was being sent straight to the Pediatric Intensive Care Unit, and you went going with me.

Thank you for coming with me so I had a familiar face, and a comforting hand. Thank you for settling me in to the PICU, and then coming again to check on me after your shift. Once again, the next day before your shift, thank you for coming into check on me.

Thank you for being a nurse, a friend, an advocate, a lifesaver, a hero and everything in one. Don’t ever doubt yourself, because I thank you, and every patient you care for though they may not say it, is thankful and grateful, and lucky to have you as a nurse.

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