How I Became an Artist While Fighting With Illness


Hi, I’m Roz, and I’m the artist behind North Mayo Fine Art. I’ve been creating art for most of my life, but have been an artist for three years.

I might not have become an artist had it not been for the fact that I became disabled with multiple chronic illnesses and became housebound.

I want to tell you a bit about what happened to me, and why I’m thankful that my life took the turn it did.

I started to draw at a young age, and could always be found with a pad and pencil in my hand. My first drawings were the normal, square houses with the sun in the corner, and the V-shaped birds. I remember drawing various animals including lambs, chicks and a horse I was so proud of, and my people were the typical triangle body and fat arms and hands that rolled into one object. I was so proud of my drawings, and thought they were the best drawings in the world.

I took art at school and enjoyed it so much that I asked the head of the art department whether I could take an extra GCSE in art, which I did (I did 2D and 3D art). I then went on to do a GNVQ in Art and Design in the Sixth Form.

I decided to get a job, and at that point and my drawing took a step back, but I still dabbled in it from time to time. I always wanted to work in photorealistic art and that was always in the back of my mind.

Fast forward a few years. I met my husband, and we decided to start a family. That’s where it all went wrong for me.

Without going into a lot of detail (and boring you all), my pelvis broke and fused back together in the wrong place, and no one did anything about it. My consultant said it was normal pregnancy pain and I was just exaggerating it for attention. I was so angry. It happened again during the second and third pregnancy too, and still nothing was done.

I now have permanent damage to my back, hips and pelvis, and am registered disabled. I’ve also developed multiple chronic illnesses including fibromyalgia, arthritis, irritable bowel syndrome (IBS), postural hypotension, asthma and chronic migraines to name just a few. I’m not telling you this for pity, but there is a reason for it.

 

I started many different crafts when I was at home with our first baby, including cardmaking, stamping, crocheting, sewing, paper crafts, cooking and weaving, and loved creating handmade items, but after baby number three, my condition was so bad I had to give everything up. I hadn’t been able to drive for a long time. My body was too sore to sit at a table to work, and I developed an allergy to every type of wool I bought. I could no longer stand up to cook either, and I felt like my life was over. I was housebound, and on the verge of being bed-bound.

I was in so much pain that my bed became my best friend. I couldn’t dress myself, I needed help to have a shower/bath and had to have the house kitted out with home aids to try and help me manage everyday tasks. This was not how I imagined my life would be at 27.

I was in a very deep, black hole and couldn’t see a way out. I thought my life was over, and didn’t want to imagine the rest of my life lying in bed in agony. I fell into a deep depression. I hated having to be so dependent on my family and incapable of managing the simplest of tasks on my own. Being in excruciating pain all the time was awful, and there was nothing I could do to change it. I’m allergic to all pain medications so I couldn’t take anything to ease the pain, and other medication I was offered caused some awful side effects.

After many months of wallowing in my own self-pity, I decided I had to pull myself together and find something I could do. No one else was going to fix me, no one understood what I was going through, and it wasn’t their fault, but without going through something like this, it’s impossible to understand the utter torment that comes with it, so I had to do it myself. I had to drag myself out of the deep, black hole and try and get some purpose back to my life.

I got my pad and my pencils out and started to draw. It was something I could do in bed on my worst days, and curled up in the chair if I felt up to getting up. I could pick it up and put it down whenever I needed to. Once I realized it was something I could focus on, I started to set myself goals and challenges and aims for the future. I started to show my friends online what I’d drawn and got an amazing response from them. It gave me the confidence to start using colored pencils.

I was determined to improve my techniques and succeed in my goal to create photorealistic drawings. I worked long and hard, knowing if I put the effort in, I would get the results I wanted. I also knew it was going to be a long process. There were days I could only manage 10 minutes before I had to stop and sleep, and other days I could manage a couple of hours, but I didn’t give up.

As my work improved, my friends started to ask for portraits of their pets. I was thrilled that people liked my work enough to want it in their houses. Slowly but surely, more and more people came to me wanting work, and my work was getting noticed in more and more places.

In the last 18 months I’ve had my work published in several colored pencil magazines, I’ve had an article published about taking my own photography for reference photos and I have two exhibitions booked in galleries in the next 12 months. I’ve also brought out my own range of products.

drawing of grapes and leaves

I’m attending my first Craft Fair in August, which will be the first of many fairs and markets I will be attending.

I still have bad days, days I can’t face anything more than dragging myself out of bed and down the stairs, just to curl up on the chair and sleep in my pajamas, and then there are days I feel well enough to have a shower and get dressed, which is a huge deal for me. Mornings and evenings are hard for me as they are the most painful times of the day, but I manage the best I can, and when I feel up to drawing I take full advantage of it and try and create something beautiful.

I feel very lucky, because lots of opportunities are coming my way and I have a very bright future to look forward to, with lots of exciting plans in the pipeline too. None of this would have happened if I hadn’t become disabled, as I would still have been working full-time and wouldn’t have had the time to put into my drawing that needed to be put in to get to the stage I’m at now.

If I could give anyone that lives with a disability or chronic illness one piece of advice, it’s to never give up on yourself or your abilities to achieve anything you want to. You might have to take a different approach or work in a different way, but it’s still achievable. You will go though hard times, and you might lose sight of the positives in your life, but they will still be there, and with hard work and perseverance, you can achieve anything you set your mind to. Take the rough with the smooth, and live your life to the best of your abilities, whatever they are.

Believe in your dreams, and they will come true.

You can follow Roz’s journey and see her art on Facebook or her website Conscious Crafties

We want to hear your story. Become a Mighty contributor here.


Find this story helpful? Share it with someone you care about.


Related to Fibromyalgia

The Medical Trials I Endured Before My Fibromyalgia Diagnosis

It’s been four years this August since I was diagnosed with depression and two and a half years since I was diagnosed with fibromyalgia. At the moment, I am sitting on my sofa with my head pounding for the last three days. I cannot figure out if it is high blood pressure or tinnitus as [...]

My Frustrations With How Fibromyalgia Has Affected Me

So now I have the disorder with 12 letters. I grimace every time I say it out aloud. Fibromyalgia. I expected to be able to deal with it in the normal, resilient way. Nope, this monster is so irregular you don’t know what will happen next. Unlike many, I don’t have insomnia, but chronic fatigue and [...]
woman lying on couch watching tv

How I Fight Off the Depression Caused by Fatigue

How does one deal with depression moving in when fatigue is fighting you every step of the way? I am often wondering that these days when the fatigue is getting to me more than the chronic pain. It’s hard to fight off depression when you have no energy to bolster the troops. Fibromyalgia sometimes gives [...]
Sad woman sitting on a sofa in the living room

A Life With Fibromyalgia

I was diagnosed officially with fibromyalgia when I was 31 years old. My children were 4 and 8 years old. They are two very busy and curious boys, and youngest son was diagnosed with attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) and attention deficit disorder (ADD). I don’t know why I have fibromyalgia. I ask myself that at least [...]