Two cancer survivors share advice on what you should and shouldn’t say to someone diagnosed with cancer.
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Here’s What You Should (and Shouldn’t) Say to Someone With Cancer
Instead of saying: “What caused your cancer?”
Say: “Are there any symptoms I should look out for in my own body?”
Instead of saying: “Someone I know passed away from cancer.”
Say: “I know someone who had cancer. Would you like to hear about some things that they found helpful?”
Instead of saying: ”Let me know if there’s anything you need.”
Say: “I am going to do XYZ for you.”
Instead of saying: “You are brave.”
Say: “I can’t imagine how you feel.”
Instead of saying: “Stay positive. I hear having a positive attitude helps.”
Say: “I know always being positive can be hard. How are you really doing?”
Instead of saying: “This is all part of God’s plan.”
Say: “This is a tough time. I’m here for you.”
Written by Justin Birckbichler