A Promise to My Son on the Autism Spectrum

To my beautiful son,

I need to explain to you why there might be times you think, feel, see and hear differently than others. You see, son, you have something called autism. Sometimes this might affect your experience of certain places, textures, foods, lights, sounds and clothing. At times these things may be very overwhelming for you. Your senses are stronger than most, so lights are brighter, sounds are louder, and you feel things stronger.

Because you think and see things differently, it gives you amazing qualities. You are advanced in math and music, and you have been able to read since early preschool. You can understand how mechanical equipment works, and you understand computers better than I do.

Autism might bring challenges at times, but know that if there are difficult times, Mama is right here — I’ll help you. And during good times, I will be right here cheering you on. Together we’ll celebrate all of your successes. Together we’ll find coping techniques for you when you need them.

Son, I want you to know that autism doesn’t define you as a person to me. You have autism and it may only be a small part of you, but it’s a part of you I want you to learn, understand, accept and embrace. I will do everything in my power to help you succeed. I promise never to underestimate your abilities and never to stop fighting to ensure you have everything you need to succeed. I promise to be there for you every time you need me to be, and I promise to stand by on the sidelines cheering you on when you need to do it all on your own.

I promise, above all else, to always love you unconditionally. Please know that you are loved, you are wonderful, you are beautiful, you are smart, you are special, you are talented, you are brilliant, you shine, and you are my world. I cannot possibly list all the amazing qualities you possess because the list is never-ending. You are doing amazing, you are amazing, and you will always be amazing. I just love you.

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