I want to scream and cry
I had such a good therapy session today. I did some homework last night and my girlfriend helped. My therapist said he was very proud of me for doing such deep work. It was a deep dive into the shadows. It even helped me bond with my girlfriend.
So naturally I wanted to tell my mom. I called her and was so bubbly. I told her about doing the work with flutter...
and her immediate response was "but I don't understand why she had to be involved. It's YOUR therapy. You shouldn't need help from anyone".
I just don't have adequate words for how upset I am. I didn't argue, I said I will talk to you later and I hung up. I just couldn't wrap my head around how she's so clueless and closed minded.
I wish I could cut my mom out of my life but when my daughter turns 18 in November this year I will need my mom to help me connect with her. So I gotta play nice.