The Google Search History of a Person With Depression

Usually I hit up the Google machine for super boring reasons. I need directions. I can’t remember the name of a song. You get it. But when I’m depressed, Google goes from being my concierge to my confidant. Google is there as I move from denial to desolation, capturing my lowest moments and my most earnest attempts at self-care.

I recently emerged from three months of darkness… and my search history shows it. Some of the searches took place in my cubicle, others underneath the covers. I was feeling a lot when I typed each phrase, and their collective weight is akin to the heaviness that was in my heart.

So – before I change my mind about sharing this – here’s an uncensored chronology of my latest bout with depression:

“depression symptoms”

Because, you know, maybe my professionally-trained therapist was wrong.

“drowning GIF”

I like to keep my depression casual when drafting emails to coworkers.

“how to stop sleeping so much”

Never in my life have I been so confused about whether it was 8 a.m. or p.m

“can people tell I’m depressed”

It would probably help if I dried my hair and wore legit pants.

“dog adoption beagle”

I’m so lonely.

“short-term disability depression”

Is there any chance I could cry at home instead of at work?

“what they tell you on a suicide hotline”

Seems rude to call a hotline person in the middle of the night. I’ll just ask the internet.

“makeup application minneapolis”

Getting my makeup done for a friend’s [extremely casual] birthday party will bring my self-confidence back, right? Right?

“how to move past depression”

That makeup idea definitely didn’t work.

“pinterest inspirational quotes”

Never felt more basic in my life.*

*For the record, I found one I loved. It goes like this, “At any given moment, you have the power to say: This is not how the story is going to end.”

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