If You've Ever Been Told You Don't 'Look' Sick, These 14 Memes Are for You


Invisible illness can be a bit of a double-edged sword. On one hand, it can be nice to keep your health issues private, only sharing them with others when you’re comfortable doing so. But on the other hand, many people hold the misconception that you must “look” sick in order to be sick – which can lead to unfair judgments and false accusations.

It can be frustrating and stressful when you’re experiencing an onslaught of symptoms yet appear totally healthy – but many people have also found the humor in it, too. Honestly, the contrast between how we may feel on the inside and look on the outside can be so extreme it’s (almost) comical.

If laughter helps you cope with the struggles of invisible illness, you might enjoy the following memes:

1. When your health is deteriorating but you’re trying to stay calm:

this is fine meme
via K.C. Green

2. When people are surprised to learn you’re sick:

sorry my symptoms don't meet your expectations
via @supportforspoonies Instagram

3. When having invisible symptoms means you can pass as healthy:

saying 'i'm fine' even when you're not
via @supportforspoonies Instagram

4. When people ask how you are and you respond “I’m fine”:

drawing of a man crying and wearing a smiley face mask
via @TheRealKCross Twitter

5. When your insides are screaming but you’re used to it:

garfield surrounded by thought bubbles about being in pain
via @chrystellelight Twitter

6. When people don’t understand what “invisible” means:

but you look so healthy
via @supportforspoonies Instagram

7. When you’re still rocking your good looks, even with chronic illness:

doctor saying you're fine meme
via @MarkEpperson Twitter

8. When your face is smiling but your body is not:

me on the outside vs. me on the inside
via dopl3r

9. When your doctor says you look healthy and sends you on your way:

guess i'll die meme
via @habloponey Twitter

10. When people still think all illness looks the same:

you don't look sick meme
via @You_look_well Twitter

11. When you cope with being sick by pretending to have fun:

elaine from seinfield drinking and saying 'i'm miserable'
via @Seinfeld Pinterest

12. When you tell someone what really goes on in your body:

educating somebody about your illness
via @supportforspoonies Instagram

13. When you’ve perfected that fake smile for pretending you’re “fine”:

fake smile
via @supportforspoonies Instagram

14. When people think “invisible” means “faking”:

you've got it backwards actually. I'm faking being well
via @endotruth Instagram

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