The Right to Take Risks as a Person With a Disability

A few weeks ago, I went to a fair with my parents. As I was eating, I could see part of an attraction with suspension bridges. I greatly enjoy walking across rope bridges, because the bridge’s motion combined with my bad balance from cerebral palsy makes it hard, but not impossible, to cross. When we approached the attraction, which was decorated like a pirate ship, the employee confirmed with my parents that I could navigate it. They assured him that I could, and I got out of my wheelchair and entered the attraction.

What I had failed to see before I entered was a cargo net ladder. Climbing ladders is not my specialty. Had I seen it before I started, I probably would have not gone on the attraction. But I was not about to turn around. I had troubles and probably looked ridiculous, but I made my arms and legs pull me up the ladder. When I reached the top, one of the workers was waiting there, likely wondering why I had attempted the climb. Without saying a word, he followed me through the rest of the obstacles. When I had exited the ship, I thanked him.

Many people have the misconception that I am fragile. While I am more prone to fall than most, I am hardy. Unfortunately, many people are reluctant to let me take risks. I spent many hours at summer camp watching the other kids play because the counselors were terrified I would get hurt. I also wanted to say, “Don’t most kids get hurt at camp? Isn’t that the point?” I am so grateful to the carnival worker who ensured my safety without taking away my fun. That attitude, a risk itself, enabled me to go beyond my comfort zone, like most people want to do at a fair.