To My Daughter With Down Syndrome on Her First Day of Kindergarten

Dear Lily,

Five years ago kindergarten seemed light years away. Somehow here we are. While I’m not ready for this new chapter to begin I know you are. And as those doors begin to close behind you at your elementary school next week, I’ll stand there watching you walk away with not only tears but so much hope. So many wishes and prayers for you. So many dreams, my girl.

I pray your teachers and those that surround you not only see your challenges, but also your gifts. You have so many. I pray you make a real friend because everyone deserves a friend in this world. I pray you are included: on the playground, in the classroom, t the lunch table … truly and genuinely included. I pray your peers slow down for you, just a bit so that you can keep up. You are so worth the wait. I hope your differences don’t set you apart but instead allow others to see you shine. To see your tenacity. Your perseverance. Your grit and determination. Your journey to this point has not been easy. Every step. Every word. Every skill has been hard fought. Us able-bodied folk take so much for granted. So much.

Mostly, I want you to know this is your world, too. You have a place. It’s yours for the taking just as much as those classmates alongside you. Your opportunities are endless, too. “Anything can happen, child. Anything can be.”

I will always be your biggest fan and loudest cheerleader. We’ve made a really great team in these last five years. I am so proud of you. And in your own words — “I’ve got this mum!”