We are 1st generations to immigrants who were sponsored to the US due to the Vietnam war. All I know is that no matter where you come from. Many are money hungry as fuck and will do almost anything to have it.

I got into a heated conversation with my FNL about life Insurance. He has 4 total in which he does NOT pay for. His oldest son pays for one and his new wife pays for 3 of his. He says that if we don't buy him life Insurance then we don't love him. We can barely afford to pay for our own bills and he wants to see us struggle to make ends meet while paying for something he already has 4 of!!! I'm flabbergasted. He told me that when he dies, those who didn't buy him life insurance or paid for his life Insurance will not get any. I told him that's Totally fine! He sees life Insurance as an investment. I do NOT! To me it serves one purpose, to take care of the funeral expenses not to fucking pocket from it. When I found out that his new wife is paying for all 3. I knew exactly what her intentions are. He cheats on her relentlessly but she won't budge for the sake waiting for her lumpsum. I told my husband that when his father does pass away, I don't think any of the life insurance money she's paying for will go towards his funeral. She will expect his kids to pay out of their pocket. If that day does come, they're NOT getting a dime from us! #Greedy #Lifeinsurance #GuiltTrip