I used to attend therapy with my DID husband. After a few years he started to just go on his own. Initially I thought that made sense so he could work through things that were private. As time went on I felt more and more disconnected from his healing journey. He is now resistant to attending. I went to his appointment on Monday in an effort to re-engage him in the process. He didn't show though so I spent the hour and a half with his therapist on my own. It was a lot of me just saying "here's what I've tried/am trying and it's not working" while she nodded her agreement #notsurethathelped