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16 Products to Try If You're Feeling Anxious Tonight

When anxiety strikes at night, sometimes you need more than counting sheep to slow down your thoughts and relax. Lack of sleep isn’t good for anyone’s mental health, and can create a vicious cycle for those who live with anxiety — as stress and anxiety make it harder to fall asleep, exhaustion then makes the anxiety worse.

For all things mental health, there’s never a “magic cure,” but there are often things we can do to get some relief. We asked our mental health community what helps them sleep at night.¬†Here are their recommendations.

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To Smell

1. “I spritz my sheets with a lavender oil and water mixture in the daytime so when I go to bed it’s dry and I find the scent is relaxing and helps me to sleep better.” —¬†Laura R.

lavender oil

We recommend: Aromatherapy Lavender Mist for Room and Body from Aura Cacia, $5.67 at Lucky Vitamin.

2. “DŇćTERRA essential oils, specifically the Balance blend and the Serenity blend. Serenity is their ‘restful’ blend and truly has helped many relax enough to fall asleep quicker and stay asleep. Personally, I use it in a diffuser next to my bed but friends of mine like to apply it to the bottoms of their feet before bed. I highly recommend it!” —¬†Abby M.

serenity oil

We recommend: Serenity Essential Oil Restful Blend from DoTERRA, $36.00 on Amazon.


We recommend: Mini Aroma Essential Oil Diffuser from VicTsing, $35.99 on Amazon.

3. “Aromatherapy jewelry. It was suggested by my therapist to wear it then have a scent/perfume that was associated with good memories in it. I use my mom’s perfume. So whenever I start to freak out I can smell it then be calmed instantly.” —¬†Kacey K.


We recommend: Sacred Arrow Diffuser Bracelet from Vitality Extracts,  $13.95 on Vitality Extracts.

To Touch

4. “A silk taggy. It is a mini blanket. It has silk ribbon sewn on and then you rub the silk back and forth. It’s amazing.” —¬†Mykah C.


We recommend: Sensory Ribbon Blanket Lovey from Wishing Stars Boutique, $15.00+ from Etsy.

5. “My weighted blanket is the best investment that I have ever made. It helps me calm down and sleep better at night when my anxiety levels heighten within me.” —¬†Kaila G.

gravity blanket

We recommend: Gravity Blanket, $249.00.

To Watch

6.¬†“ASMR videos [Autonomous sensory meridian response, a flow-like mental state that’s triggered by a very specific sound or visual] works for me.” —¬†Ileana A.

rock garden

We recommend: Zen Garden Sleep Aid from Made In France ASMR on YouTube.

¬†7.¬†“I love to watch ‘Planet Earth.’ The quiet images are soothing.” —¬†Krys¬†S.¬†

Planet earth

We recommend: “Planet Earth” now streaming on Netflix.

To Listen

8. “My pair of SleepPhones and Sleep With Me Podcast.¬†It’s really relaxing and helps lull me to sleep on bad nights.” —¬†Amy N.


We recommend:¬†SleepPhones¬ģ Classic from SleepPhones,¬†$39.95.

9. “Children’s audiobooks. Happy stories I’ve read before so I don’t have to pay attention to what’s going on. I can rest and close my eyes and if I wake up with panic it’s still on to distract me.” —¬†Tina C.

Selection of books

We recommend:¬†Anything from the “children” category at¬†All You Can Read audiobooks.

10. “It’s not a product…but if I play worship music at night, I find that helps relax me enough to go to sleep.” —¬†Tia T.

Spotify playlist

We recommend: The Mighty’s¬†playlists on Spotify.

11. “Light rolling thunderstorms on my speaker. Usually this lets me fall asleep within minutes after being awake for what seems like hours.” —¬†Katy¬†F.


We recommend: The Thunderstorm Sounds Nature app by Zodinplex, free on Google Play.

¬†12. “Meditation. I often fall asleep in the middle of the breathing and such. ” —¬†Susan T.
cartoon of a man with headphones

We recommend: Headspace app, free on iTunes.

To Do

13. “I keep a book of sudoku puzzles in my bedside table. Something about the numbers and patterns makes me get sleepy and turn my mind off for a bit.” —¬†Kyra B.

Bedtime Sudoku

We recommend: Bedtime Sudoku: Sudoku Puzzles To Curl Up In Bed With by Brent Hover, $6.99 on Amazon.

14. “Playing a repetitive game on my iPad with the light dimmed and in night mode helps calm me. I play a mean game of solitaire.” —¬†Bailey S.

the sims

We recommend: Our list of 25 phone games to play if depression is keeping you up at night.

15. “My journal. I write down the thoughts that keep me awake at night. Have been thinking of getting melatonin though to ease the struggle. Scents don’t help they give me intense migraines.” —¬†Adrien S.

I can't sleep journal

We recommend:¬†I Can’t Sleep journal¬†from Knock Knock, $5 on Hollar.

16. “It’s time-consuming but I’ll make a list of reasons I should not be stressed and anxious. I go through it and try to think of things that outweigh whatever is bringing me down.” —¬†Madalynn J.


We recommend: Our list of 12 planners that can help you stay organized when you are overwhelmed.

Have a product you love? Let us know in the comments below.

Lead photo via SleepPhones and Lucky Vitamin