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BlendedFamilyDrama our Trauma??
I was married once and we had three amazing kids together. My fiancé was married and had three daughters, then separated and had a son with someone else. So between us I have 2 sons and a daughter. He has 3 daughters and a son. 7 kids!! And let me tell you it’s crazy. We’ve been together for 7 years this year. My 2 youngest have lived with us for 6 years. His daughters lived with there mom till she ran off, then 2 went into foster care. We had to jump through hoops to get them back. But we did about4 years ago. But his oldest daughter continued to run away. So his daughter and my daughter were 14 when they began sharing a room, clothes abs shoes. They were friends at first and my daughter is just really sweet. His daughter learned quickly to take advantage of my daughter. Constantly taking her things and acting like she’s never seen it. My daughter got a job when she was old enough and loves to buys herself things. Her step sister loves to steal those things. It has become stressful. His daughter always denies it. He says there’s no proof. But even if there is proof he just yells at his girl and tell her don’t do it again. My daughter just turned 18 and moved out because she was just tired of having her things taken. Whenever we tell him what his daughters done, even with proof, he just makes excuses for her. And usually gets angry, like he’s in the middle of it. I love him and his children but I feel he always puts them ahead of the rest of us. It is just difficult. My kids love him like a father but they get tired of the way he baby’s his daughters. I mean he all but spoon feeds them. His oldest daughter lives near us and had a child of her own which I love. She’s my granddaughter just like she’s his. But it’s just still another person that comes before me. I love his kids and do my best to treat them like mine. I just get tired of being on the bottom of his list of important people. I make sure he feels like my #1 . I love him different than our kids and make sure they all feel special. But the way he lies about his kids and does things behind my back for them. Idk. He says he loves me more than he’s ever loved anyone else. I do feel that’s true. Idk. I feel selfish because sometimes I just want to feel like his #1 . Any thoughts? Am I the crazy one?? His daughter even steal my daughters underwear. My daughter works hard for what she has, while his daughter just hangs with her friends. And I’m pretty sure he gives her money behind my back. She smokes ciggs and weed but has no job to pay for any of it. I can’t exactly prove he gives he money but my common sense leads me. She’s going to be 18 in December. He treats her like she’s 14. In just really stressed and need opinions. Plz leave thoughts!!#blendedfamilies #beyondfruatrated
