My neuropsychologist tells me it’s okay to be selfish sometimes. He says it gets a negative rap, but taking care of yourself first is important. I learned from the time I was very small NOT to be selfish. Abuse can do that. If you hear it enough , you begin to believe you aren’t worthy. Always, always put the needs of others before myself. It’s been difficult retraining my mind to believe otherwise. Lots of great therapy has helped. Sometimes doubt sneaks in though. I just had company for 4 days. By day 2, I was experiencing depression and PTSD symptoms. I didn’t recognize them at first because I’d been doing so well. I’ve now learned that I need alone time. I’m an introvert with PTSD, so being around others is exhausting for me. Next time I have company, I’ll make some ‘me alone’ time. After all, I must put the oxygen mask on myself first before I can be of any good to someone else.
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