Nobody is coming to save you. Get up.

You. You. And only YOU are in control of your life and only YOU are responsible for your happiness. The sooner you accept and process this, the sooner your life will begin to change. You will not heal if you continue to point fingers at anyone other than yourself for where your life is at. People get caught up here, not understanding the difference between accepting responsibility for everything that has happened to them - even at the hand of others - and accepting it is up to them to change. Taking the BLAME and taking responsibility are two very different notions. No one can change their past or what has happened to them. But you CAN choose how you respond to the situation. Are you a victim of your life or a survivor? A warrior who can build themselves back together no matter what life lessons are thrown their way. You have to make the choice. But just quietly - I have been arroune victims my entire life and they don’t change. Why would they? They feel they have every right to be angry, to say it’s someone else’s fault for the way their life turned out. Is that “somebody else” suffering? Why let the hardships in your life harden you. They are your teachers... learn from them.

I think I was always subconsciously waiting for somebody, or some event to save me, to snap me out of the hell I was living within my own head and reset my life for me the way I had always thought it would be. Happiness is an inside job. The hero I was waiting for all along was ME! Only a revised version of me, one who knew her worth, refused to turn her back on her intuition and who was willing to put in the work.
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