My boyfriend of almost 7 years was just diagnosed with stage 4 metastatic melanoma on January 8. It has spread to his lymph system, his adrenal glands, his kidney's, his lungs and possibly his brain.. I just lost my Aunt Donna to metastatic cancer this past December 15. I am trying to be positive for him but the survival rate for his type of cancer and his age and the fact that it has metastasized, is only 20%.... Any advice on how to stay positive and strong for him??