I sometimes feel that people don't understand that even when you leave a toxic and abusive relationship you still have things and feelings to work through. You sometimes see the connection and sometimes you don't. But am I the only one who gets mad when they say that you have to stop living in the past and just get over it? I don't want to live in my past, but I want you to know why am I this way and some of this isn't me, it's the remains of the war I have just left. #9monthsandcounting