My husband finds a real pleasure in hurting me verbally.tries to keep me in tension always..I have become expert in handling such behaviour without myself getting affected by it.but offlate it has become too really worried about the reason behind his Nature.he tracks all my phone calls.and worst part is he cannot stop defending on the topic I discussed with my family.extremely cold and doesn't care about any of my emotions.since my family is close to me,abuse badly about my family to me..not ready to take treatment..his family takes it offensive when said about his nature.kindly help