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My husband finds a real pleasure in hurting me verbally.tries to keep me in tension always..I have become expert in handling such behaviour without myself getting affected by it.but offlate it has become too much..am really worried about the reason behind his Nature.he tracks all my phone calls.and worst part is he cannot stop defending on the topic I discussed with my family.extremely cold and doesn't care about any of my emotions.since my family is close to me,abuse badly about my family to me..not ready to take treatment..his family takes it offensive when said about his nature.kindly help

My husband has been telling me in the past year or so that he has anxiety. The way I have treated him over the years I can’t help but think it’s my fault. Last night I told me I could be cruel at times but wouldn’t elaborate. This morning he said he has no words. I have depression and we have lived together for 14 years. We both are struggling with the running of a house, 2 children and our relationship. It isn’t all his fault and it isn’t all mine. But we are both to blame in our own ways. I feel like we need relationship therapy but where apart from relate as we can’t afford that. Thanks in advance for any replies.

My husband has been telling me in the past year or so that he has anxiety. The way I have treated him over the years I can’t help but think it’s my fault. Last night I told me I could be cruel at times but wouldn’t elaborate. This morning he said he has no words. I have depression and we have lived together for 14 years. We both are struggling with the running of a house, 2 children and our relationship. It isn’t all his fault and it isn’t all mine. But we are both to blame in our own ways. I feel like we need relationship therapy but where apart from relate as we can’t afford that. Thanks in advance for any replies.

My new meds have killed any sex drive that I had. My husband is frustrated because we used to have a healthy sex life. When I tell him no or I'm just not in the mood he gets pouty or he will get slightly angry. Not at me but more the situation. It then makes me feel really guilty and like I'm a badd wife because I don't want to have sex. What do I do? How do I get him to understand this isn't about him? I've explained to him how I feel since starting these new meds and that I don't have any control over it. #Medication #sexdrive #Marriage #husband #spouse

My toddler has a common cold so my husband has to stay home for the 10 day isolation. We’re on day 4 and I’ve felt judged, ignored, alone, ashamed, so depressed I don’t want to get out of bed and I’m having a terrible time sleeping. He has zero patience for a whiney toddler, my bigger kids get in trouble if they don’t jump the second he asks them to do something. I’m so beyond over him being home...I can’t say anything because it’ll start a big battle and I don’t want that around my kids. I’m alone in this...isolation sucks, especially living in a rural area...I’m really struggling to keep my head above water. #CheckInWithMe