Came across this meme and was appalled. While narcissists abound but narcissism is more a pathology while depression and grief are not. As a default those who are grieving or depressed,( in my view ) at some levels seek attention and care, but self aggrandisement such of the narcissists & so orchestrated , is not a grieving’ default. And coming across such memes reducing it to this crudity, is painful. But that’s how many of those i’m familiar reduce my grief to and my character. Such memes will reinforce insensitivity and legitimize their inability to empathize with a grieving persons condition. 😕 # grief #ComplicatedGrief #dealingwithloss #Loss #Shame