I moved to a new State this year and as more and more of my original plans fell apart so did I. After years of therapy I was diagnosed with BPD and chronic depression. I moved up here with my best friend. Our plan was to be retired together and do fun things. She was addicted to online dating and her reasoning was she was looking for a “companion, best friend and someone to do fun things with”. I truly hoped that I would still be able to do things with her. Then she met someone. The only time I am invited is after the fun things when they are doing nothing. Am I an afterthought? Mmhm.