forgivness

After the worse year in my 45 year old marriage I am just now starting to feel forgiveness. I wanted him to be sorry for the way he treated me, beg for my forgiveness. Alas, karma took over. 1) A friend’s long time mate died. I realized we (my husband and I) might not have much more time together.
2) My chocolate lab died after a long battle with cancer. I was lost without him.
3) It finally happened, karma hit my husband. His support dog got heart failure and in a week, was dead. He was finally hurt, bad. Cried and cried like I did when he hurt me. His heart was broken.
Call me mean, but I was happy that something could finally hurt him like he hurt me.
I am appeased.
#Forgiveness

Do you believe you should forgive your abuser . being in an emotionally abusive relationship for over 10 years . which helped contribute to anxiety and depression. recently he apologized for what he has done (we have been divorced for over 3 years ) . DO you believe in forgiving , do you think people can learn from their mistakes even a narcissistic person