I used to let people walk all over me. Romantic relationships, friendships and family.
Then I found that I had to be strong because there was nothing else I could be at the time or I would die...(Not a figure of speech) and I built walls and walls and walls.
Now I'm a I don't take no S**T from anyone about anything. Example: you lie or treat me badly I cut you out I don't give any chances anymore because in the past I gave so MANY chances and got so hurt everytime by people that I don't give chances anymore.
And I feel I went from being soft too being too hardcore...and I struggle with finding a balance..
I feel like I'm not a kind person anymore because I don't let people walk all over me anymore and I take a stand now...even though I'm told how kind I am I feel like I'm rough... #Kindness #hardcore #conflicted #heart