Most times when I am in a lot of pain no one even asks me “How do you Feel? or “ Are you Ok?
I started to think about my conversations I have with someone I am very close with. I realized that this person never ask me those questions.
Even thou I ask those to them daily. I also realized this person didn’t talk “TO” me they talked “AT” me.
Our conversations are them talking about a show/movie they watched or sports. When I try to talk to this person they are not paying attention, they look uninterested or don’t even answer me back They make no sounds or say anything like” uh huh” yeah “really” things so that I know that there listening. like wth! it’s hard enough that I get NO love & affection but to feel like you also ignored or the people that suppose to love and care about you don’t is really distressing on top of everything else we have to deal with. #Idontgetno #ChronicIllness #ic/bps #InterstitialCystitis #CheckInWithMe #PTSD #Depression #Fibromyalgia #HowDoYouFeel? #areyouok ?