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Super done…
I’m super upset with my ‘friends’ right now. This one guy who commissioned me isn’t making payments and I’ve had to chase him down for any money he owes on his commissions. He didn’t even have the 30% down payment ready and was struggling to even complete that amount. This is needed for materials to even begin the making anything.
I finished his head today and apparently my ‘friends’ assumed they were picking it up tonight. I told them no, this guy still owes me $3000 and I wouldn’t feel comfortable with him taking his head because there is no way I can make sure he won’t damage it or just completely ghost me on any further money he owes me .
My ‘friends’ honestly tried to bully me into letting him ‘just have his head’ this afternoon by telling me he has a job and he’s good on payment. But is he though? He shown me nothing but disrespect.
Mind you, this same guy was just in Texas, at Texas furry fiesta last weekend and in a few weeks he’s going to Atlanta, for furry weekend Atlanta.
Okay so what that he has a job, he clearly has chosen what he wants to spend his money on and it’s not paying off his fursuit but instead flying to expensive conventions and staying in expensive hotel rooms.
They then gaslit me and told me if I want to get paid I should message and remind him. Bro that’s not my job! It’s his to remember to pay me, he claims he read my TOS which clearly lays out payment and payment plans. He must have conveniently skipped over the part where I need money to make his suit, which has 9 different colors of faux fur. Even if I only ordered one yard of each different color at $35 a yard + shipping, it’s $315 without shipping… and i definitely need more than one yard of each color.
I was so excited to start taking commissions, but honestly, after this I’m 100% done. I do not deserve this treatment, gaslighting and stress. I just want to have fun and create as well as be a big silly animal person.
Here’s the head, if anyone cares. I’m proud of it even if I’m also super angry.
#MentalHealth #Anxiety #Depression #MajorDepressiveDisorder #CheckInWithMe #PTSD
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