Couch surfing maybe cool for some but not for those with bpd. Yes, we will as long as our mental capacity can take it but we really want and need stability since we really don't know what that means only seeing it in the movies. But we long for stability and couch surfing screws up our world. Wondering who's coming in and out of there house no say so on that, not your house. Then the intrusive thoughts of all the what if. What if I overstay my welcome, what if I don't find a new apartment. And remember when you are evicted you have a balanced owed on your previous property and after 30 days of not being paid, they put it in collections and on your permanent record so no one else will accept your application to be in their apartments, you have to pay this debt off first then they will then remove it from your background check / credit report in about 2 weeks. If you don't have the money to pay it off, they will setup a payment plan... in the meantime, you can only rent from a private owner. If they don't care about the eviction status probably ask for more than the norm on the deposit. #ubpd #BPD #MentalHealth #Bpdways