How to conquer shyness
Hello beautiful people! I’m seeking y’all’s advice how to stop being so shy and just go for it.
One thing about me - I love to feel emotions! And lately, I feel them a lot. But I’m not sure if it’s bad or good thing.
Now, story time: Almost three weeks ago I went to the store to get my groceries. And there was this one guy who caught my eye. He was taking my order. I’ll spare you all the cute things I’ve thought of him. The way he looked at me with a half smile made me blush. And since then, I can’t get him out of my head.
I go to the store every other day, and sometimes I catch him looking, and the other times he seems to act like he doesn’t see me.
I didn’t get a chance to get served by him since the first time.
I’m too shy to try to talk to him. I overthink that maybe he doesn’t like me, or I’ll look like a fool.
Beside, there’s this one girl that works with him, and he seems to talk to her a lot. Which makes me feel super insecure. I’m not sure if it’s just a friendly work talk, or maybe he likes her.
Anyway, I was at the store yesterday. And we were literally walking towards each other and looking. I tried to smile but I’m not sure if it actually looked like a smile, because I got so stressed. And I turned away quickly, because his face was so serious. When I was waiting in line, he was right next to me but I didn’t dare to speak. I wanted to, but I was too hesitant. Plus, I didn’t even know what to say. And again, he talked to the other girl every now and then. I figured that maybe he’s not interested, because after all he could have talked to me as well, or at least - look at me, or smile.
I don’t know what to do, how to find out if I caught his attention, too. Or how to get myself to talk to him.
Thank you in advance! #Anxiety #overthinking #SocialAnxiety