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How should siblings act towards each other? What's the right way? What causes Unhealthiness between siblings? Explained below!

Brother and sisters should be there for each other as a support system. He learns what girls like by observing his sister and she observes what boys like by observing her brother. If a close family member passes away emotionally brothers and sister should be there to help one another through that emotional situation. There needs to be a healthy balance between siblings. She is not your girlfriend so don't treat her like it. He is not your boyfriend so don't have your brother doing boyfriend things. When mental illnesses are in the household it can be easy to clinch on to anyone that does not emotionally abuse you. But never clinch so hard that you emotionally stifle your sibling. Yes, you should love your sibling but that's where it stops, you have no reason to have a crush on your sibling rather its full sibling or half/step sibling. If you find that you have a crush on your sibling, make sure you never act on it! Distract yourself and try putting those thoughts out of your mind permanently. See a therapist if the thoughts persist. #ADHD #Autism #bpdworld #quietbpdworld #BorderlinePersonalityDisorder #Depression #BipolarDisorder

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Are you jealous of your sister? You came from the same mom and dad, so why are you jealous, so what you don't look like each other.

Sibling rivalries have been going on for years especially when its 2 sisters or 2 brothers. Why does it matter that she doesn't have a zit on her face this week. It might be there next week. Who cares that her boyfriend treats her better. Maybe you can ask her what she looks for in a guy. Why do you care who ask mom for money first? Do you think your mom favors her more and gives her everything she ask for and gives you nothing? Don't go thru life being hateful toward your sister because you were jealous of the relationship she had with your mom. Maybe it's for a reason, maybe your mom feels your sister is weaker than you and you're the strong sibling. So, she doesn't baby you as much. Maybe your sibling has a mental disorder, and your mom doesn't like talking about it and she reaches out to her more because of it. So, try not to sum it up as your mom is nasty towards you and don't love you and you just hate your sister for the rest of your life. Ask questions with a mild tone. You get more bees with honey. So, approach them with a kind sweetheart and see if you get the answers, you are looking for. #ADHD #Autism #bpdworld #quietbpdworld #BorderlinePersonalityDisorder #Depression

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Moms have to have a healthy relationship with their sons. Unbalanced mom and son relationships can turn into other situations. Explained below!

Moms teach their sons at an early age how to respect women. And how to balance out a relationship, she teaches him how women can be a good home maker and still have a certain level of independence when married. Sons see this through is dad and moms actions how the interact. The love they show to each other. Most sons will pick a girlfriend or wife that resembles either his mom or his sister. Through actions or looks. Because he trusts his mom and sister because he understands who they are, they helped him be the man he is today. Moms can tell their sons that they look handsome, but they have to be careful as they age and keep a balance there. It is so easy for a mom to emotionally manipulate her son because he trust her so much. And unhealthy relationship between mom and son can easily turn into emotional incest. You don't want him to be a momma's boy. And that his not fair to the woman he will eventually attract that will end up being either his girlfriend or wife. Because then she has to deprogram him from that twisted cycle that you have him locked into. So, moms have to treat their sons like a man when he gets to a certain age but not let her emotions get involved to the point of him becoming your surrogate spouse. He is not there to sort through your intimate and emotional problems between you and you husband that is distant from you or your ex-husband, you boyfriend. Leave your son out of that scenario. It's unhealthy emotionally. #bpdworld #BorderlinePersonalityDisorder #quietbpdworld #ADHD #Autism #Depression #BipolarDisorder

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Dad's have to be strong and keep that bond healthy and balanced with their daughters.

And dad's have to remember his daughter is just that not his best friend. Dad's need to understand how to keep a balance there even when his daughter gets to the point of flirting with him and attempting to push the mother out of the picture. Moms and Dad's need to keep an open line of communication. #ADHD #Autism #bpdworld #BorderlinePersonalityDisorder #Depression #IrritableBowelSyndromeIBS #quietbpdworld #BipolarDisorder

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