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Lost my " Cro-jo" along with my zest for life. #betrayed #nocro -jo #whatwouldyoudo ?

See this shawl? I was making it for a family member who requested it. I am stuck due to anger at her.
I can hardly write it down here. And the info is sketchy from both sides of this situation. I am pretty sure I will never know the truth.in the past there are times neither of the two family members have been honest ( to save their own necks). As the wounded by these folks & their actions, I am eaten up with self recrimination. I should have known better, should have seen between the lines, should have raised holy hell when I found out what was going on...... All I can say is at that time I was hurt, stunned these folks threw each other under the bus.... But no clear culprit or action was owned up to. No one apologized for causing me harm. And for the last 4 years or so.... I have shut down. I simply can not " fake normal" anymore.
I guess its time to pull this weed up & examine it with my therapist tomorrow. It sure is hurting me today.
Thanks for letting me have a place to hash it out.
#spittingmad #familygrudge ?

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#CheckInWithMe

For a year and a half I’ve been an active part of a smallish company promoting them when I can as well as creating positive videos to help draw more customers. In the rules created by the individual who started this company is that if anyone ships anything out, a tracking number is required. It’s a steadfast rules that’s been followed without any problems. That is until last weekend. Several of us helped the owner decipher something and as a very nice free gift. After two weeks, when they sent work that this gift had been spend out, I was one of the only individual to not have received mine. The others were over seas. Yet a few lived in my same state and they had gotten there long ago. I also noticed that the individual whom started this company didn’t provide a tracking number which was suspicious to see the least. Simply pointing this out last week Saturday to them asking for the tracking number since it has been over two weeks by that point. Once again they just blamed it on covid instead of actually acting like a boss of a company before, flipping out. Sending me a threatening email, calling me all sorts of names, on their brands official email complete with signature. Before banning me and claiming to refund me for several purchase I’d previously made. Only one of the refunds has actually shown up in my PayPal the others are still MIA. I’m really upset and still am dealing with the panic attacks as well as people tracking me down via other social media’s to harass me due to miss information.

Needless to say this has been a wake up call. I no longer use any forms of social media and while it’s been a weird week I’ve been able to breath again. To those whom own business how would you have handled this situation? I wasn’t aggressive or bullying as they claim. Just asking for something they failed to provide and up until now hasn’t been broken.
#Anxiety #PanicAttacks #Depression #Business #whatwouldyoudo

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