Feeling isolated while getting help
Okay, so... I’ve had people offer to help( in terms of calling doctors and labs). When they get the same results ( phones ringing constantly. Being brushed off. They get frustrated with the situation they direct that my way. Intentionally or not.
Which on the receiving end makes me feel like what and the way you’re doing things is wrong. I’ve tried to explain this but they get all uppity:” Well that’s wrong. What you’re feeling and the way you’re perceiving things is incorrect.
They just listen to respond and not hearing you out. It makes me not want their help. Curating opinions and painting you with them. It’s isolating.
Has anyone ever felt like this?