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Trauma Recovery - The Guide to the Most Powerful Villains in Psychology
Hey, everyone. This is a safe place to share how you feel, but often times one has to get to the root of why they do. I will define the kind of toxicities that can hinder that, though, to gauge if there is some way I can suggest to help you overcome them.
Narcissists - ego-obsessed, cannot see past themselves, never open to new perspectives, trapped in their own mind, always prioritizing number one being their self over anyone, and learning to control people as their narcissistic supply. Just take away their power or give them too much. Reflect their energy, gray-rock, or black-rock (no contact). Do not stain their name without undeniable proof. Let them face their narcissistic rage then the collapse and mortification phases.
Psychopaths - so, these individuals already have the common traits involve little/no self-control, remorse, or empathy for what they do. They may be proud or emotionlessly apathetic about how they affect others. With a psychopath, you may notice them speak in past tense and be antisocial or all about me, me, me! They will flatter and then lie to you to death. Gender plays a huge role, but I would rather not be accused of being discriminatory when I am stating facts on that so find out on your own about it. They always save their own skin and lie pathologically every time. Beyond deception, they blame-shift, have zero morals, and lust for power. They are sadists who cure their boredom off your pain in thrill-seeking behavior. They do not care for rules or laws or consequences. as a child, you may see some symptoms of antisocial personality disorder in which they lie, hurt animals, start fights, and act very aggressive. The dating relationships are often short and exploitative, making more the enemies and betraying more trust than the average person you may meet. They easily lose interest and simply do not speak in terms of reality when they are out of touch. They take calculated, cold actions against their victims. If it all feels staged, go with your gut. they can orchestrate any circumstance to make you feel less of a person and dehumanize you. According to an article “This is how to deal with psychopaths and toxic people,” Barking Up The Wrong Tree (n.d.) specifies, “…nucleus accumbens section of their grey matter produced four times as much dopamine.” They feel a much bigger reward system. Accept they will never change except on their own, keep your distance, be more mindful of actions, not words, build your own good rapport, and always work towards your mutual benefit with them.
Sociopaths - very similar to psychopaths but more so influenced by the environment and less likely to involve themselves with violence or criminal activities. Sociopaths tend to have the three common traits of wetting the bed, abusing animals, or playing with fire, literally doing that. Well, they can form very weak anxious attachments, but do not typically differ as much from the regular psychopath.
Dark empaths -the most dangerous people on the planet that hide in plain sight where you rarely even suspect. They have a Dark Triad of narcissism psychopath and manipulation called Machiavellianism. It is them simply combining all these traits into one evil-a** monster and unfortunately, all my traumas made me that monster, but I am trying to become a super empath that helps people instead of hurts them when I feel threatened. I always do my best to spread positivity rather than extract negativity. If you maybe are a per se dark empath, it may be hard to unlearn it but eventually, you will not be that forever.
There is always a chance to improve if you felt like you had always been in self-defense mode your whole life. Each one of the unpredictable personalities is a broken soul, a tortured artist per se that does not know how to paint their story in the right colors and scheme. You just have to learn to paint your own canvas and write your own story. Take your power back and do not let these people affect you ever.
