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I'm so lonely

Pauley went to work today. She'll be there till at least 10 pm . For some reason I'm craving cider donuts. I'll be able to get some on Sunday. We're going to the Canterbury village Michigan made event. There's a store front for Yates cider mill. They have some really delightful treats like 10 different flavors of fudge, cinnamon sugar cider donuts, apple butter, mini apple pie and ice cream nachos with sugar cone chips. It's one of my favorite things about Michigan.
On Saturday we're going to the transgender pride in the park. There will be vendors, music, snackies... It's put together by the trans woman who started the national trans day of rememberance. We have a strong presence here in the Detroit metro area.
I've been trying to avoid it but I keep browsing Etsy for collars . I found a few that I really like. We are planning to have Pauley collar me in November but she's not helping me and she won't let me plan it so I don't know what to think. It's very important to me. But if it doesn't happen I will try to not be upset.
My scalp is horrible. Big scabs, flaking, bleeding, sharp pain, it hurts so much. We're gonna try to find a new dermatologist.

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befriending yourself

Loneliness can feel crushing when you are battling depression. You might convince yourself that no one understands, that no one is there for you.

But the most important relationship you will ever have is with yourself. When you learn to treat yourself with kindness, patience, and compassion, you begin to feel less alone.

You become your own ally instead of your own enemy.

This does not happen overnight. It starts with small acts of self-care. Speaking to yourself gently instead of with criticism. Allowing yourself rest without guilt.

The more you practice, the more you realize you don’t have to wait for someone else to make you feel whole.

You can start by befriending yourself.

Take a moment today to notice how you’re speaking to yourself. Could you replace one harsh thought with a kind one? Share it in the comments and inspire someone else who needs to hear it.

Also, if you're going through a tough time right now, I want you to know that I post daily mental health videos about how I recovered from depression and suicide back when I was a teen. So if you or anyone you know is struggling with these issues and wants help, click on one of the links below or write me if you have any questions:

www.instagram.com/thomas_of_copenhagen

www.tiktok.com/@thomas_of_copenhagen

#MentalHealth #MentalHealth #Depression #Anxiety #BipolarDisorder #BorderlinePersonalityDisorder #Addiction #dissociativedisorders #ObsessiveCompulsiveDisorder #ADHD #Fibromyalgia #EhlersDanlosSyndrome #PTSD #Cancer #RareDisease #Disability #Autism #Diabetes #EatingDisorders #ChronicIllness #ChronicPain #RheumatoidArthritis #Suicide #MightyTogether

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Mighty thoughts in less than a minute

When I finished Days at the Morisaki Bookshop, I realized it wasn’t just a story—it was a mirror. It reminded me that loneliness doesn’t mean emptiness, and that healing often begins in the smallest, quietest corners of our lives.

I think many of us in this community understand what it feels like to start over, to search for anchors when life feels adrift. This book doesn’t give us dramatic answers, but it does offer companionship—the kind that whispers, “you’re not alone in this.”

So I’d love to hear from you:
💭 Have you ever had a “Morisaki moment”—a place, a book, or even a person that gave you shelter when life felt too heavy?

Your stories matter, and just like in Morisaki’s shop, sharing them may be the gentle light someone else needs today.

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Days at the Morisaki Bookshop – A Love Letter to Healing, Loneliness, and the Quiet Power of Books

📚 Spoiler Alert: This review touches on some key elements of the story, though I’ll keep the heart of it intact for you to discover.

Picture this:
A rain-drenched Tokyo evening. Neon reflections ripple across empty pavements. In the heart of Jimbocho, where bookshops stand shoulder to shoulder like silent guardians of memory, a young woman steps into a dimly lit secondhand store. The air smells of ink, dust, and forgotten stories. She does not know it yet, but this little shop—Morisaki Bookshop—will become her sanctuary, her turning point, her quiet revolution.

There are books that dazzle us with plot twists and thrill us with action. And then there are books that simply hold our hand when life feels too heavy, gently reminding us that healing can be found in the most unexpected corners. Days at the Morisaki Bookshop by Satoshi Yagisawa belongs to the latter—an unassuming yet luminous tale that feels like a warm cup of tea on a rainy afternoon.

A Shop Full of Silence, Yet Full of Life

The story begins with Takako, a young woman stumbling through heartbreak and exhaustion. Life seems bleak until her eccentric uncle Satoru invites her to stay at his secondhand bookshop in Jimbocho, Tokyo’s “book town.” The shop itself becomes a character—dusty shelves, the smell of old paper, and the strange comfort of being surrounded by stories larger than your own.

It isn’t just about reading books. It’s about rediscovering yourself in their quiet presence.

Why This Book Feels So Precious

I picked up this novel expecting a light, cozy read. What I didn’t expect was the emotional honesty that seeped through its pages. The narrative doesn’t shout; it whispers. And in that whisper, it delivers some of life’s greatest truths:

Loneliness can be a beginning, not just an ending.

We heal not by escaping life, but by embracing its small, overlooked details.

Sometimes, the people who seem the most peculiar are the ones who rescue us.

As a doctor, as a mother, and as someone who knows what it feels like to start over, I found myself seen in Takako’s hesitant steps toward self-discovery. Her struggles felt tenderly human—never dramatized, never trivialized.

A Humanitarian touch

What struck me most is how Yagisawa doesn’t present books as mere escapism. They’re portrayed as tools of connection. In a world that often feels loud and fractured, this novel is a gentle reminder that humanity can be preserved through simple acts: offering a book, listening without judgment, or inviting someone into your small, imperfect world.

The bookshop becomes a sanctuary not just for Takako, but for anyone who has ever felt displaced in life. And isn’t that, in a way, what we all crave? A place where our stories matter, even if only to one other person.

The Catchy Bits

A dusty Tokyo bookshop that smells like rain and nostalgia.
A quirky uncle whose grumpiness hides oceans of kindness.
A protagonist who doesn’t “fix” her life overnight—but learns to breathe again.
Lines that feel like they were written for you, especially if you’ve ever felt lost.

Final Thoughts

Days at the Morisaki Bookshop is not a book you devour; it’s one you savor. It leaves you with a quiet ache, the kind that lingers after meeting someone who changed you in subtle, unspoken ways.

This isn’t just a novel about books—it’s about the human need to be held, understood, and gently guided back to ourselves.

So if life feels overwhelming, and you’re searching for something tender yet powerful, let this little Japanese gem find its way to your shelf. It won’t just tell you a story—it will sit beside you, patiently, until you’re ready to turn the page of your own life again.

Rating: 5/5 – A timeless comfort read that humanizes loneliness and celebrates the healing power of books.

Closing Note

When I closed Days at the Morisaki Bookshop, I didn’t feel like I had just finished a novel. I felt as though I had quietly shared a season of my life with Takako, sitting beside her in that little Tokyo shop, breathing in the smell of worn pages and new beginnings. Some books dazzle; this one simply stays. It lingers in your chest, whispering that even in loneliness, there is a soft doorway back to hope.

And perhaps that’s why this novel matters so much—not because it shouts wisdom, but because it teaches us to find beauty in the small, unspoken gestures of living.

If you’ve ever been lost, or if you’re searching for a book that feels like a companion more than a story, let Morisaki Bookshop keep you company. Who knows? You might just discover that the shelves are not only lined with books, but with pieces of yourself waiting to be found again.

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Chronic Illness Took My Health—Loneliness Took Everything Else

Hi everyone, I’m new here.

I came across a post earlier that really spoke to me, and I wanted to share a bit of my own experience.

I truly believe that loneliness is the disease of modern man. Somewhere along the way, we forgot how to really connect—to sit with each other in the hard stuff, to feel seen and understood. When you’re living with chronic illness and pain, that sense of disconnection only deepens.

For the past two years, I’ve been dealing with ongoing health challenges. The longer it goes on, the more isolated I feel. Friends still check in from time to time, but there’s only so much they can say. And there’s only so many times I can retell my story. Most days, it’s just me—quiet, hurting, and trying to get through the hours.

That kind of aloneness can pull you into a dark place. I’ve been there.
Some days I’m still there.

I’m not writing this looking for advice—just connection. A simple comment, a “yeah, I’ve been there too,” can make a bigger difference than most people realize. Even the smallest human connection can be enough to make continuing forward feel worth it.

So if anything I’ve said resonates with you, feel free to reach out. I’m here, and I’d really like to talk.

Thanks for reading.

##hurtinginsilence #chronicillnesslife
#isolationisheavy
#livingwithpain

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Self confidence, afraid, sad , discouraged feeling down

My mental health has been easy to deal with being i ignored it after i was taught to forget about suicide . No that I remember it’s lonely being like this can’t chat to people about it cause it’s not common, I am feeling pain at the moment I have chronic pain issue . I fell alone like I was left to deal with my pain alone I wasn’t I have lots of help or advice am just not dealing with depression to well #ChronicPain #mentalillnes

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I'm new here!

Hello Mighties,
I’m someone weathering a storm of financial pressure and mental health battles. I carry a debt while fighting severe depression, crippling anxiety, and dissociation—all clinically confirmed through assessments (MMPI, Beck, DASS-42). Ironically, my condition cost me my job when my employer labeled me a ‘risk’ to the workplace. Medication side effects reshaped my body, shutting doors to roles I once qualified for. Some days, loneliness and stigma make the world feel like quicksand.
Yet in this chaos, words became my lifeline. When I channel my pain—the debt, the isolation, the spiraling thoughts—into short stories, raw memoirs, or even speculative fiction born from my struggles… I breathe again. Even if my words only reach my own eyes, writing reminds me I exist.
I’m here hoping my pen might forge new paths. Whether it’s content creation, editing, or sharing lived experiences about mental health—I dream of work where my voice adds value. Not just to repay debts, but to prove I’m still worthy of purpose. And if not? The mere act of writing here already soothes my soul.
Has writing ever been your anchor during tough times?

#MightyTogether #Depression #Anxiety #PTSD #Grief #ADHD

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A Flipped Switch: Undiagnosed Suspected Neurodivergent Early 30s Female

Something inside me has shifted. I don’t know if it was a switch flipping on or off, but suddenly I’m aware of things I’ve never seen clearly before. It’s like I’m meeting myself for the first time, but also investigating a long-abandoned version of me. Sometimes I feel like a detective, a survivor, and a witness all at once; dusting off forgotten memories and buried emotions that have been quietly running the show.

I feel like the whole cast and crew of Inside Out live in my head—and I’m not just Riley. I’m watching the control panel, the islands, the memory storage, even the monitor that shows what Riley sees. I’m the observer, the critic, the rescuer, the fixer, and the confused child, all living inside the same system, trying to speak over each other. Sometimes I don’t know whose voice is talking, or if what I’m saying is fully true when I say it. I catch myself adjusting my words in real time, as if I’ve spent my whole life making sure I say what others want to hear. Not out of malice, but out of survival.

This level of awareness is both fascinating and exhausting. I’m constantly aware of my thoughts and the fact that I’m aware. It feels like I’m running the control tower of a giant airport, watching the weather, scanning radar, managing signals, and trying not to crash, while also being the plane flying through the storm. It’s a lot.

And yet, I’m still functioning. I still show up. I still smile. But it’s getting harder to fake it now that I’ve started unmasking. I don’t want to go back to hiding, but I also don’t know what moving forward looks like. I feel like I’m standing at the edge of a massive canyon where my younger self got lost. Now I’m walking back in with a flashlight, trying to find her.

I know people might think I’m overanalyzing or being dramatic. But this is just how my brain works. I speak in metaphors because they’re the only way I can explain what’s too complex to put plainly. I feel like I have a thousand tabs open in my mind, and I’m finally starting to look at what’s on each one. This might be some combination of autism, ADHD, trauma, or something else, I don’t know yet. But I know it’s real. And I know I’m trying.

I am exploring the world of expressive and emotional writing; I (may not like it 🥺🥲 but I) would love to hear your feedback on any of my writings 📝✨ thanks for reading!

#Neurodiversity #ADHD #AutismSpectrumDisorder #Anxiety #Depression #MentalHealth #Loneliness #PanicAttacks

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