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Why Trauma-Informed Care Is Essential in Child Welfare Systems By BigmommaJ

Child welfare systems exist to protect children from harm. Yet for many children and families, involvement with these systems becomes another layer of trauma rather than a pathway to safety and healing. This paradox is not the result of individual failure—it is the result of systems responding to trauma without being designed to understand it.

Trauma-informed care is not an enhancement to child welfare practice. It is a foundational requirement for ethical, effective, and humane intervention.

Child Welfare Is Inherently Trauma-Exposed

The overwhelming majority of children and families involved in child welfare have experienced multiple, chronic adversities long before a report is ever made. These experiences often include:

*Physical, emotional, or sexual abuse

*Chronic neglect

*Exposure to domestic violence

*Parental substance use and untreated mental illness

*Poverty and housing instability

*Systemic racism and discrimination

*Intergenerational and historical trauma

*Separation from caregivers, siblings, culture, and community

Research consistently demonstrates that child welfare–involved populations have significantly higher Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) scores than the general population, placing them at increased risk for lifelong physical, emotional, and relational difficulties (Felitti et al., 1998; Anda et al., 2006).

Without a trauma-informed framework, child welfare systems risk responding to trauma symptoms as behavioural problems, rather than as adaptive survival responses.

Trauma Shapes Behaviour, Not Morality

Trauma alters neurodevelopment, particularly when experienced in early childhood. It impacts:

*Emotional regulation

*Stress response systems

*Attachment and trust

*Impulse control

*Cognitive processing

*Sense of safety

In child welfare contexts, these trauma responses are frequently misinterpreted as:

*Defiance

*Aggression

*Manipulation

*Non-compliance

*“Lack of insight” or “poor motivation”

A trauma-informed lens reframes the central question from:

“What’s wrong with this child or parent?”

To

“What happened to them, and what do they need to feel safe enough to change?”

This shift is not semantic—it fundamentally alters assessment, intervention, and outcomes.

System Involvement Can Re-Traumatize

Even when removal is necessary for safety, child welfare involvement is itself a potentially traumatic experience. Children often experience:

*Abrupt separation from caregivers

*Loss of routine, identity, and belonging

*Placement instability

*Repeated retelling of traumatic experiences

*Lack of voice or agency in decisions affecting their lives
Parents experience:

*Shame, fear, and grief

*Loss of autonomy and parental identity

*Heightened surveillance

*Re-activation of their own unresolved trauma

Without trauma-informed care, standard child welfare practices—court processes, compliance-based case plans, rigid timelines—can unintentionally replicate dynamics of powerlessness and control, undermining engagement and long-term safety.

Trauma-Informed Care Improves Outcomes

Evidence-informed trauma-responsive child welfare systems demonstrate:

*Greater placement stability

*Improved caregiver-child relationships

*Increased family engagement
Higher rates of successful reunification

*Reduced use of punitive or coercive practices

*Improved permanency outcomes

Trauma-informed care recognizes that regulation precedes reasoning. When people feel safe, they are neurologically capable of learning, reflecting, and changing.

Fear-based compliance may satisfy short-term system goals—but it does not create sustainable safety.

Reflection: A Child Welfare Lens

As a child welfare professional, I have seen how easily trauma is mislabeled as resistance—and how devastating that misinterpretation can be.

I have watched children punished for behaviours that were, in truth, survival strategies learned in unsafe environments. I have seen parents deemed “uncooperative” when their nervous systems were locked in fight, flight, or freeze. I have witnessed systems demand emotional regulation, insight, and compliance from people who had never been offered safety, consistency, or trust.

Trauma-informed care challenges us—not just to change how we intervene, but to examine how power is exercised within systems.

*It asks us to slow down in systems designed for speed.

*To listen in systems designed for documentation.

*To see humanity in systems trained to assess risk.

Child welfare does not operate in a vacuum. Many families enter the system already failed by mental health services, addiction supports, housing systems, education, and healthcare. By the time child welfare intervenes, the harm is rarely new—it is cumulative.

If we do not practice trauma-informed care, we become another chapter in that harm.

Trauma-Informed Care Is Also a Workforce Issue

Child welfare professionals are exposed daily to secondary trauma. Without organizational trauma-informed practice, workers experience:

*Compassion fatigue

*Burnout

*Emotional numbing

*High turnover

*Reduced decision-making capacity

A trauma-informed system must support reflective supervision, manageable caseloads, and psychological safety for staff. A dysregulated workforce cannot effectively serve dysregulated families.

Equity, Culture, and Historical Trauma

In Canada, Indigenous, Black, and racialized families are vastly overrepresented in child welfare systems. This reality cannot be separated from:

*Colonization and residential schools

*Forced child removals (e.g., the Sixties Scoop)

*Systemic racism

*Intergenerational trauma

Trauma-informed care, when paired with cultural humility and anti-oppressive practice, is essential to preventing the repetition of historical harm under modern policy frameworks.

Without this lens, child welfare risks perpetuating the very injustices it claims to address.

Call to Action

Trauma-informed care must be embedded at every level of child welfare:

*Legislation and policy

*Intake and investigation

*Court processes

*Placement decisions

*Case planning and timelines

*Permanency planning

Workforce development
Children and families do not come to child welfare because they failed.

They come because systems failed them first.

If child welfare is truly about protection, then trauma-informed care is not optional—it is an ethical obligation.

BigmommaJ
#traumainformedcare #MentalHealth #Recovery

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Trying to elevate your understanding

So I don't try to hide the fact that I am polyamorous. And I realized many of you know nothing about polyamorous people and just assume it's cheating because*snort* only monogamous people are committed to their relationship.
Ok, I'm done laughing. Let's get down to the basics.
Polyamorous people can and do have any number of partners as they want or need. I currently only have my primary partner Pauley. We've been together for over a year now. I do actually have another pseudo partner... He's my long distance QPP. We've been bestest friends for about 7 years now. He's like a dad or eccentric uncle who likes krampus, furries, leather kink, and he has an odd relationship with jello molds from long ago.
Stick around for the end credits, spoilers!
Now for me it's just the most logical relationship dynamic for me and Pauley. Pauley has alexathymia. It's often found in the auDHD community but it's not everyone. Basically Pauley doesn't understand human emotions. She's emotionally stunted. She cannot read facial expressions or body language. And when I desperately need someone to love me and talk out my emotional baggage she just can't. So either I try to reach out to my platonic friends for support or I seek a secondary emotionally mature partner.
I think the heart to heart conversation I had tonight with her was...necessary but painful. We are still devoted and deeply in love with each other. But we understand there are important things I'm not getting from this relationship. Which isn't to say this relationship is bad. It's not perfect but it's mine. And I'm not perfect. And Pauley isn't perfect. And together we're 2 fucknoodges looking for that little spark that makes the edges of my sweet potato crispy.
Why should we be worried about perfection in this fucked up hellscape called America 2026. Let's all find weird little joys where we can when we are able.
Anywho.
We're life partners and that didn't change. But we both agreed I need someone else to bond with for emotional growth.
What does this mean for our future together?
Well.
If she can recover from her depression enough to bill her clients and we can live on her income without my SSI, we're gonna get legally married.
If that doesn't happen we're gonna have a pagan handfasting ceremony with my QPP giving me away at the altar.
It's gonna be a potluck because what pagan doesn't imbibe in the occasional potluck. At normal intervals pagans are like little fuck head kittens with no order and one climbed the tapestry. But pull out your fancy crockpot and here they come running.
I'm thinking about hosting a reception at the local BDSM venue. We can put all the crockpots in the eaty place and play with the stingy thuddy toys I have come to love and hate. Oh gosh being a sadomasochist is fun. Yeah I know. I'm a heathen and I'm going to hell for being in leige with the devil.
I mean yeah I'm a witch. Duh.
But I'm not interested in demons unless they know their way around my coffee. I might be interested in a student exchange program.
I'm a kitchen witch, I am a tactile healer. I cook joy, happiness, catharsis, release of negative energy, growth and enlightened understanding of the world inside of us all. I am a tarot card reader and have been for over 20 years. Unfortunately due to some past "let's see if noxs head can make dents in the plaster if we hit hard enough" courtesy my adoptive dad, I cannot memorize the cards.
So over the course of about 5 years I researched the different thought schools of tarot interpretation. I took what resonated with me and left the rest for the spirit to help others in the aether.
I need to redo my book in a hard binder.
I like dancing around flaming cauldrons while we chant to raise our vibration to reach the divine, even if it's just to say hi.
So my ceremony will be wonderful regardless of what kind of union I need. Traditional marriage just doesn't do it for me. It's rigid and steeped in rules of the church and my church is the forest. My altar is the dirt from whence arise steady noble redwoods and tiny mushrooms all with the same sunshine. My Deity has a name. She is Brigid. Celtic goddess of healing and poetry. And she loves me and protects me from harm.
I haven't celebrated my holy days in over 10 years. I plan to do little things for Brigid on my holy sabbaths this year. Mostly light candles, recite some of my own poems, and offer the wild animals some freshly made suet cakes and peanut butter pinecones covered in seeds hung from the trees. For blessed he who loves the gentle lowing animals of the world, may the comfort they have shared come upon him and his family threefold.
Blessed be.

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Why am I like this

I’m be having a good day with my bf and he’ll be having a good day and then something shifts in me and it ends up causing more trouble, pain and upset instead of just continuing to be a good day. I’m having a really hard time regulating emotions lately and idk why. I have been having trouble with my new job, there’s been health issues with my family and me personally, and I don’t get to really be with my bf as much as I’d like to be. But I thought I was handling it so well. And then there I went again, messed it up because I let something get to me that shouldn’t have and causing a big argument and now I just feel depressed and broken. I keep pushing to get the things done that I wanted to tonight but I’m just not ok. I want to be, but I’m not. Does anyone else have tips or something they use for emotional regulation? I could really use the help.

Picture of my brand new tattoo so I don’t get lost
#Relationships #Depression #Anxiety #ADHD #ChronicPain #Emotionalregulation #exhausted

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An unexpected blessing #Depression #Anxiety #Gratitude #Relationships #FamilyAndFriends #MentalHealth

Rehab was hard work this morning. Which is great news. It’s a sign my body is recovering, in fact the readings of movement in my leg showed a lot of improvement in the past 2 weeks.

While exercising I overheard an elderly lady who was quite distressed that she couldn’t go to hydrotherapy at 10:30 instead of 11:15 as the class was full. She had another appointment today so needed the change.

I approached her and offered to swap sessions with her as I have no appointments until 3pm. She almost started crying. Such a simple thing to bless someone.

I used my available time to go to the hospital cafe for a much needed macchiato. The waitress brought me my coffee and said, “I have drawn you in the coffee”. I looked down at the coffee and she says, “That is you, Mr Smiley”.

What a unique and unexpected blessing. Today is panning out so well.

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Tried to find Schitt’s Creek Valentines but couldn’t find many, so I made some (😅)

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There are many kinds of love: friendship, parent and child, sibling, romantic, mentor/mentee, etc., and they are all just as important 🧡🖤♥️💕

(RIP Catherine O’Hara)

#artastherapy #Relationships

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Tried to find Schitt’s Creek Valentines but couldn’t find many, so I decided to make my own

(They may be difficult to read on small screens)

There are many kinds of love: friendship, parent and child, sibling, romantic, mentor/mentee, etc., and they are all just as important 💗♥️🖤💙💚

(RIP Catherine O’Hara)

#artastherapy #Relationships

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Tried to find Schitt’s Creek Valentines but couldn’t find many already made, so I made some myself (lol)

(They may be difficult to read on small screens)

There are many kinds of love: friendship, parent and child, sibling, romantic, mentor/mentee, etc., and they are all just as important 💗💚💛❤️🧡

(RIP Catherine O’Hara)

#artastherapy #Relationships

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Tried to find Schitt’s Creek Valentines but couldn’t find many already made. So I decided to make some myself, lol

(They may be difficult to read on small screens)

There are many kinds of love: friendship, parent and child, sibling, romantic, mentor/mentee, etc., and they are all just as important ❤️♥️🖤💙💚

(RIP Catherine O’Hara)

#artastherapy #Relationships

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