It’s Friday the 13th, which also in the middle of suicide awareness month. As a child, I never thought of myself as suicidal or someone with any mental health issues. However, I was always shy, to myself, never had much friends, introvert and always bullied. I did cry a lot especially when people talked about me, bullied me verbally and sometimes chased me as well. I was always told to “ignore it”, “tell someone” or “word don’t hurt”.
They did hurt but no one really understood that. I couldn’t ignore it because it happened way too often. Tell someone like a teacher fell on deaf ears because all they told them was to stop. As I got older, most of the bullying was verbal. I was always called a “nerd” and “weird” for the most part even now.
I did actually started dating at 16-17. I wasn’t the sexual type so most would break up with me or cheat on me for those reasons. I began to start harming myself but always told myself not to do it. I was sometimes hit myself (this was something I really kept to myself from everyone). I was still a good person. I’m an old fashioned person.
Fast forward to now being diagnosed December 4th 2017 and a lot of this that happened as a kid or what I was feeling made more sense including unrecognized pain.
#ChronicIllness #Anxiety #SocialAnxiety #ChronicMusculoskeletalPain #CarpalTunnelSyndrome