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Hi, my name is LadyLibra66. I'm looking for ways to cope with the guilt, and sadness of having Lupus, a chronic illness for 4 decades. My guilt and sadness is because I feel like compared to what I was like (up until only 10 years ago,) and how much I’ve progressed, is letting my family , especially my wonderful husband down! They all try to reassure me, I’m the only one feeling this way, but I find it hard to believe, since the bulk of daily chores have landed on , especially my husbands lap. I worry, he feels resentful, because at time he’ll just snap or yell, if I as a simple question. Maybe I’m making too much out of it, and I need to stop feeling like I ruined everything for all of us! Thank you for reading. I’m so happy I stumbled on to this site! Cheers to all🫶