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Addiction and Mental Health: When the System Fails the People It Was Meant to Protect By BigmommaJ

We talk a lot about personal responsibility when it comes to addiction and mental health.
We talk far less about system responsibility.

That silence matters—because for many people, addiction is not a failure of willpower. It is the predictable outcome of fragmented systems, delayed intervention, and policies that respond to crisis instead of prevention.

In Canada, substance use and mental health challenges continue to rise, particularly among individuals with histories of trauma, poverty, child welfare involvement, and untreated mental illness (Canadian Centre on Substance Use and Addiction [CCSA], 2023).

Yet our systems remain largely disconnected, reactive, and risk-driven.

Addiction Is Not the Root Problem

Addiction is a symptom, not the disease.

Research consistently shows strong links between substance use, trauma exposure, adverse childhood experiences, and mental illness (Public Health Agency of Canada [PHAC], 2023).

When addiction is treated in isolation—without addressing trauma, attachment, housing instability, or mental health—outcomes are predictably poor.
People are told:

“Get sober first, then we’ll treat your mental health.”

“Stabilize your mental health, then address the addiction.”

For individuals living in survival mode, this binary approach is not only unrealistic—it is clinically unsound. Best-practice Canadian frameworks clearly support integrated treatment for concurrent disorders, yet access remains inconsistent across provinces (Mental Health Commission of Canada [MHCC], 2021).

Fragmented Care Creates Predictable Harm

Mental health services, addiction treatment, income assistance, housing supports, and child welfare often operate in silos. Each system has its own eligibility rules, waitlists, and thresholds—many of which require a level of stability that the individual does not yet have.
The result:

Emergency department become default mental health providers.

Detox programs function as revolving doors instead of pathways to recovery.

Relapse is treated as non-compliance rather than a feature of chronic conditions.

Recovery cannot happen without continuity of care, something Canada’s own national mental health strategy has long identified as a critical gap (MHCC, 2022).

The Child Welfare Connection We Don’t Talk About Enough

A significant proportion of adults with substance use and mental health challenges have histories of:

*Childhood trauma

*Foster care or group care placements

*Family separation

*Chronic instability an attachment disruption

Canadian child welfare research consistently shows overrepresentation of families affected by poverty, trauma, and parental substance use—yet responses remain surveillance-focused rather than supportive (Fallon et al., 2020).

Children learn early that systems remove—but rarely return to heal.

Years later, those same children are labeled “high-risk adults.”

This is not coincidence.
It is systemic continuity of harm.

Stigma Is Embedded in Policy

Stigma is not just interpersonal—it is structural.
Policies that discharge people for relapse, deny services due to “non-compliance,” or prioritize short-term outcomes over long-term stabilization actively reinforce harm. The Mental Health Commission of Canada has repeatedly emphasized that recovery-oriented care must be person-centred, trauma-informed, and non-punitive—yet implementation remains uneven (MHCC, 2021).

We would never discharge a person with diabetes for unstable blood sugar.

Yet we routinely abandon people with chronic mental illness and addiction for displaying symptoms.

Recovery Requires More Than Motivation

Motivation alone cannot overcome:

*Unsafe housing

*Poverty

*Untreated trauma

*Lack of culturally responsive services

Systems that retraumatize through control and exclusion
Healing requires safety, consistency, dignity, and time.

These are not individual traits—they are system responsibilities.

What a System That Works Would Look Like

A functional addiction and mental health system would:

*Treat substance use and mental health together

*Embed trauma- and violence-informed approaches across services

*Provide long-term, relational care instead of time-limited interventions

*Integrate child welfare, health, housing, and community supports

*Centre lived experience as legitimate clinical knowledge

*Measure success by quality of life, not discharge dates

Canadian public health models increasingly recognize this approach—but recognition without implementation changes nothing (British Columbia Centre on Substance Use, 2023).

Call to Action: From Awareness to Accountability

If we are serious about addressing addiction and mental health in Canada, awareness is no longer enough.

We must move toward accountability, integration, and reform.

This means:

*Demanding integrated care for concurrent mental health and substance use disorders

*Advocating for trauma-informed, attachment-based practice across child welfare, healthcare, and justice systems

*Challenging policies that punish relapse, poverty, and survival behaviours

*Investing in early, family-centred interventions, not just crisis responses

*Elevating lived experience as evidence—not anecdote

For professionals:
Examine your systems, not just your clients.

For families:
Your loved one is not broken—if care hasn’t worked, it may be because it was never designed for their reality.

For decision-makers:
Fragmented systems produce fragmented outcomes. Healing requires coordination and courage.

And for those who are struggling:
Your relapse is not a moral failure. Your pain is real. Your life deserves care that does not disappear when things get hard.

We do not need more programs that manage symptoms.
We need systems that support healing.

BigmommaJ
#MentalHealth #AddictionRecovery #systems

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Flowers on Valentine's Day

My Garden and patio are blooming early because of a dry January here in the Sierra Mountains of CA. The Geranium, Daffodils, rosemary and Vinca showing colors. Just thought I would share on Valentine's day and all the tulips I just gave to mom because she was feeling blue 💙🙂#MentalHealth #DegenerativeDiscDisease #MuscularDystrophy #ChronicPain #RareDisease #Fibromyalgia #Depression #Anxiety #CervicalRadiculopathy #Hyperalgesia #Disability #Diabetes

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When panic starts rising, this simple focus trick can calm your mind in seconds.

Racing thoughts and panic often pull the mind into the future or the past, which makes anxiety feel stronger. Grounding techniques work by bringing attention back to the present moment where the body can calm itself naturally. Focusing fully on a physical object engages the senses and interrupts spiraling thoughts without forcing relaxation. Over time, practicing this skill builds emotional regulation and makes stressful situations easier to handle. Have you ever tried grounding your attention like this when anxiety starts rising?

If you want to learn more about this, check out my video by clicking on one of the links below.

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Rest is a mental skill you can practice.

Many people stay in constant tension without realizing how much it affects their mood, focus, and energy. Short guided pauses like this help calm the nervous system and prevent stress from building up throughout the day. You do not need long meditation sessions to feel relief, even 30 seconds of intentional rest can shift how your body responds to pressure. Practicing this regularly supports mental clarity and emotional balance. Did you feel a difference after trying it just now?

Also, if you're going through a tough time right now, I want you to know that I post daily mental health videos about how to deal with painful thoughts. So if you or anyone you know is struggling and wants help, click on one of the links below or write me if you have any questions you want me to answer

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Arguments

Many conflicts happen not because someone meant to hurt us, but because expectations were never clearly expressed. When needs stay in our head, the mind fills in the gaps with assumptions, frustration, and disappointment. Learning to communicate openly and honestly allows others to understand what we want instead of guessing. This does not mean being harsh or demanding, it means being kind, clear, and respectful with your feelings. Over time, this builds trust, reduces misunderstandings, and improves emotional well being. What is one need you’ve been holding back from expressing lately?

If you want to learn more about this, check out my video by clicking on one of the links below.

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A year of color in review

Nature never ceases to amaze me and this year we were lucky to have the most colorful patio to enjoy. I do repeat sometimes with my posts but this time I chose the ones that stood out. Mom and I really enjoy this healthy distraction together which makes it even more special. #DegenerativeDiscDisease #ChronicPain #MuscularDystrophy #RareDisease #Fibromyalgia #CervicalRadiculopathy #Diabetes #Disability #Depression

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When you talk about what nourishes you, your mind learns where safety lives.

Many of us bond through talking about stress, frustration, and problems, but constantly rehearsing pain can quietly keep it active in the mind. Shifting some attention toward moments of joy does not ignore reality, it balances it. When you intentionally speak about what brings you calm or satisfaction, your nervous system begins to register safety again. This small change in focus can support emotional healing and mental clarity over time. What is one simple joy you could talk about today instead?

Also, if you're going through a tough time right now, I want you to know that I post daily mental health videos about how to deal with painful thoughts. So if you or anyone you know is struggling and wants help, click on one of the links below or write me if you have any questions you want me to answer

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~ Thanks to all. Thanks for all. ~

#MentalHealth #MentalHealth #Depression #Anxiety #BipolarDisorder #BorderlinePersonalityDisorder #Addiction #dissociativedisorders #ObsessiveCompulsiveDisorder #ADHD #Fibromyalgia #EhlersDanlosSyndrome #PTSD #Cancer #RareDisease #Disability #Autism #Diabetes #EatingDisorders #ChronicIllness #ChronicPain #RheumatoidArthritis #Suicide #MightyTogether

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Mental Self-Care 101: How to plan a week that actually reduces stress

Many people experience stress not because they are doing too much, but because they are reacting instead of planning. Taking a few minutes at the beginning of the week to reflect on what you want to accomplish helps your mind prepare instead of panic. When you write down intentions for work, personal life, rest, and enjoyment, you create awareness around what matters and what does not. Hitting even small targets builds mental resilience and self trust over time. Planning is not about pressure or perfection, it is about giving your mind a sense of direction. What is one intention you want to set for the upcoming week?

If you want to learn more about this, check out my video by clicking on one of the links below.

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Where attention goes, life follows.

Suffering often continues because the mind keeps returning to the pain itself instead of what can be learned from it. This does not mean minimizing what hurt or pretending it did not matter. It means choosing to extract meaning instead of staying stuck in replay. When you focus on the lesson, you reclaim some power and give your experience a direction instead of letting it define you. Growth does not erase pain, but it prevents pain from being the end of the story. What lesson do you feel ready to take from something that hurt you?

Also, if you're going through a tough time right now, I want you to know that I post daily mental health videos about how to deal with painful thoughts. So if you or anyone you know is struggling and wants help, click on one of the links below or write me if you have any questions you want me to answer

www.instagram.com/thomas_of_copenhagen

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~ Thanks to all. Thanks for all. ~

#MentalHealth #MentalHealth #Depression #Anxiety #BipolarDisorder #BorderlinePersonalityDisorder #Addiction #dissociativedisorders #ObsessiveCompulsiveDisorder #ADHD #Fibromyalgia #EhlersDanlosSyndrome #PTSD #Cancer #RareDisease #Disability #Autism #Diabetes #EatingDisorders #ChronicIllness #ChronicPain #RheumatoidArthritis #Suicide #MightyTogether

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If your mind feels cluttered or noisy, this is one of the fastest ways to clear it.

Many people feel mentally overwhelmed because their thoughts never get processed, they just keep looping. Journaling works because it does the same thing talking to a trusted person does. It helps you externalize your thoughts so you can understand them instead of being buried by them. Simple practices like a five minute brain dump, a short gratitude list, or writing to your future self can reduce mental clutter and increase clarity over time. You do not need to be consistent or good at writing for this to help. You just need to start. Which of these journaling practices feels like the easiest place for you to begin?

If you want to learn more about this, check out my video by clicking on one of the links below.

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#MentalHealth #MentalHealth #Depression #Anxiety #BipolarDisorder #BorderlinePersonalityDisorder #Addiction #dissociativedisorders #ObsessiveCompulsiveDisorder #ADHD #Fibromyalgia #EhlersDanlosSyndrome #PTSD #Cancer #RareDisease #Disability #Autism #Diabetes #EatingDisorders #ChronicIllness #ChronicPain #RheumatoidArthritis #Suicide #MightyTogether

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