#Acceptance #recognition #others 1. Remember to breathe,if people are irritating. Don't let my thoughts be focused on unkind gestures of lashing out inflicting harm on those that annoy me.** FACT: Recognition- annoyance is temporary. I have NEVER actually lashed out and inflicted harm. Just thoughts. Couldn't actually hurt people,I'm afraid of violence..
2. Let people do what they do. It might bother me,that it's not in line with my preferences, I have no say. Not my life, no, my business. Release the need to get upset. If I don't want roommates...then work on finding a place of my own...If I'm not willing to...Then SHUT UP and deal!
3. Don't take offense when someone has a negative opinion of others...when I admire them. Defending them to the derogatory remarks of jerks...90% of the time makes no difference. They have no valid reason for their statements. They just don't care to change or try to see things(people) in a different light. Just accept this in them. Know I will not change their opinions. I won't waste my time with reactions. Try to respect the disrespectful. Don't write them off as being all bad. Just because they may be cruel in one aspect,they usually show you their good qualities in another.
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