Redefining Freedom: A Wheelchair is Not the End
Why does the word “wheelchair” still evoke sadness? Why do so many people instinctively react as if it’s a defeat rather than a tool for independence?
I used to think this way too—until I met Jake. Jake was in his early twenties when an accident left him paralyzed from the waist down. He told me about the first time a doctor mentioned a wheelchair to him. It wasn’t framed as a means of mobility; it was framed as a loss. “You’ll need a wheelchair now,” the doctor had said, with an unmistakable air of pity. But what no one prepared him for was how much that chair would give back to him.
For months, he refused to use it, convinced that doing so meant surrendering. He struggled through pain, limiting his own movement just to avoid accepting what he thought was a sign of weakness. But then, one day, exhausted and frustrated, he gave in. The moment he sat in his wheelchair, he realized how much he had been denying himself. He could move freely again. He could go out without fearing exhaustion, navigate spaces without pain, and regain a sense of control over his life. What had once seemed like a symbol of confinement had, in reality, been his key to liberation.
This made me question: Why do we see wheelchairs as a tragedy instead of an adaptation? Could it be because we, as a society, have made the world so inaccessible that we project our own fears onto those who use them? The sadness we feel when someone we love needs a wheelchair—does it come from the device itself, or from knowing the barriers they will now face?
Think about it. Imagine navigating a city where every door is just a little too narrow, every curb a little too high, and every “accessible” space comes with a catch. Many places still lack proper accessibility, making even simple daily tasks—like using the restroom or catching public transport—a challenge. Instead of ensuring true inclusivity, society often places the burden on wheelchair users to adapt, rather than improving the world around them.
But here’s the truth: The limitation isn’t the wheelchair. It’s the mindset we’ve been conditioned to accept.
The next time you see someone in a wheelchair, don’t feel sorry for them. Instead, ask yourself—how can we change the world so that they don’t have to struggle for basic accessibility? Because true freedom isn’t about walking—it’s about moving through life without barriers.