I am on disability payments from the government for my mental health and physical health conditions. I’ve become very shut in the past few years and have stopped talking to all of my friends, but when we catch up, I am so ashamed and embarrassed to say that I’m not working. I say that I’m on disabilty, and they usually don’t ask any details. But they do start asking what is wrong with me... Sometimes I just say I don’t really know, but that I’m seeing doctors. I hate this because I feel like it seems like I’m faking it when I say that... I just feel like it’s kind of none of their business anyway. My biggest issue is just that I don’t want people to know that it is money specifically from the government. I’m tempted to start lying and tell them that I’m working again at my old job. I hate lying, though. I wish there was something simple to say. Is there something simple to say? How do you explain in a way that doesn’t give away too much, but doesn’t sound like you’re faking it or making excuses. How do you tell them that it’s none of heir business without coming off as rude? #Disability #DisabilityTalk #Anxiety #Depression #MyalgicEncephalomyelitis
#FMS #CFS #ChronicPain #ChronicIllness #Disability #DisabilityTalk #DisabilityAdvocacy #mentalhealthchallenges #ClinicalDepression #PanicDisorder #PeripheralNeuropathy #InvisibleDisability #SupportOthers #CheckInWithMe #TheMightyTakeaway
Hey there everyone. I have been ill my whole life with a myriad of symptoms of illnesses, injuries, and unexplainable pain.
Finally I was diagnosed with a genetic disorder in my mid thirties and 5 years later fms and cfs. And at that same time, I had a massive flare of ??? PAIN?Extreme discomfort, throughout my body? And it has taken me 5 years of extremely difficult challenges and sometimes crushing mistakes. To get me here, sharing this. On this day I feel good after therapy and want to encourage other folks, to keep it going.
Most days are not like this. They are full of pain that I am continuously working through and that is exhaustive and depressing.
But through it all, I want
I was 15 or 16 when Trayvon Martian was killed. His death sparked a catalyst, an almost dimino like effect. After his death it was like every other month another black or brown person was a victim of supremacy or police brutality. Each instance would spark national conversations about the “talk”. The conversation every black parent has with their kid about how to act when you get stopped by police or how not attract them at all. The “talk” serves as rules for survival with rules such as don’t wear a hoodie, keep your hands visible, don’t come off as aggressive and countless others. With each instance of death and violence sparking over things so trivial the rules would change, but it has reached a point where there are no rules. So my question for today is what are the rules for disabled poc? What do you do when you’re stoped by police and you’re not able to comply to a demand quickly due to your disability? How to you convey to an officer that you have a disability? #Disability #DisabilityTalk #CerebralPalsy #Physicaldisability
I’m a mental health therapist, and I have a disability. I work in the education system, and am working to bring attention to ableism within that system. I’m giving a presentation next week. Is there anything you would like teachers, professors, and/or others who work in academia to know? #Disability #MentalHealth #Ableism #School #iep #DisabilityTalk #College #HighSchool #ElementarySchool #graduateschool
How do you guys feel about the terms “differently abled,” “handicapable” or similar? As a person with a disability I always feel weird when I hear those terms, because I feel like it’s minimizing and erases aspects of disability. Having a disability is okay, and to me those terms kind of make it seem like it’s not, and that people without a disability use terms like that to make themselves more comfortable. I don’t know if that’s just me or if other people feel the same way?? #Disability #LearningDisabilities #DisabilityTalk
Hi I've never been employed.(Work experience Program I did get paid,but piecework. It was lame)
I've always wanted to work from home.
Because 1. Don't have to worry about being fired if transportation is late,I can't get through the snow in my wheelchair. 2.Have no real job training or skills. 3. I don't work well under pressure as I 'm not speedy when I do anything( except chugging beverages).
Yeah, I know that is not leaving much for opportunity- Just thought I'd ask?
Anybody in a similar circumstance that has any suggestions for at home income ideas that I've not thought of? Thanks
Colorado State University's student senate is proposing a bill that would support 'disability simulation' events. This would encourage students without disabilities to use wheelchairs or blindfolds during an event so they can understand what it's like to live with a disability.
Research supports that these events do not promote inclusion. They often reinforce a dangerous stigma that people with disabilities are somehow less capable and that we deserve pity or praise for simply doing our everyday tasks.
Does simply sitting in a wheelchair or being blindfolded make someone understand our experiences with disability? What about the social/emotional aspects that come with a disability that cannot be simulated?
Please share your thoughts on disability simulation events. Should this bill be passed? I want to hear YOUR voice and YOUR opinions.
A link to an article on the proposed bill: collegian.com/2020/01/category-news-ascsu-discusses-potentia...
Well since I attempted to post earlier and NOTHING posted? Maybe a question for advice might.
I have been going back-n-forth with Considering opening a STABLE ACCOUNT. Would like to set aside money for purchasing/repair to wheelchair, To save money for moving in the future.
The program is the only option I've seen available for people with disabilities on Gov.income to be allowed save enough $ for big important purchases... I know it would take saving Entirety of monthly checks for for a minimum of 3yrs to be able to buy a new wheelchair! Is this safe/worth investing in?