Chronic Illness Grief
Excerpt from -
Gracefully Ill: Finding Peace in the Chaos of Chronic Illness
Sometimes grief is quiet & comes up at unexpected times. Other times grief is loud and powerful, and drowns put the rest of our world. What makes grief so overwhelming is that by nature, it doesn’t have a solution or a final answer. ☁️ perhaps healing might mean being able to sit with the loss. Being able to face it head on. Being able to feel it. ☁️ perhaps healing might mean no longer feeling so trapped within four walls of darkness. ☁️☁️☁️
grieving our health may not have a end point. It may be something that sometimes washes over us in giant dark waves, and maybe sometimes it will just lap gently at our toes. ☁️ but I hope we can all remember to be gentle with ourselves when grieving - and that we can be gentle with ourselves when we cry over a wound that we thought had already healed.
We grieve our losses more than once - and when we do, we can take all of the time we need until we feel a little bit lighter again. ☁️☁️☁️