adhdpartner

Helloo🌻
I've been dating a guy with ADHD for 4 Weeks now. Since last week he has a bad cold and he's been very frustrated and irritated about it, very focused about the fact that he's sick. Since we started dating I already informed myself about ADHD. So I understood that his frustration and bad mood doesn't have to do with me. But it's not easy for me, because he's been lately kinda distant to me and I'm between being understanding because he's sick and thinking that he might lost interest which leads to me being distant.
Well, I still want to give him comfort in this situation to not stress himself to always be in a good mood because of me, but without losing myself in it.
So do you have any advice how to deal with the situation? Giving space or just being present etc
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I never thought I would be here again.
After sooo much inner work and making plans... less than a month ago, we tied the knot and tonight he already said the divorce word. After all I’ve been doing, after paying all the bills when he got fired. He still treat like this?
I was so mad so rejected so disappointed I got loud and the neighbors called the cops.
Now we have a record on domestic violence and more anger and unhappiness.
what do you do with someone with adhd? someone that just still easily cracks at his ex and gets physical with me?
after 4 years. still so much sadness in my heart and so much questions unanswered. #Marriage #ToxicMarriage #issues #ADHD #adhdpartner #Depression #Anxiety #Divorce #MarriageWithDepression #Marriageissues