BPDPartners

I'm crying in the bathroom because my off/on bf and father of my son (and alcoholic) is making excuses to try to go to his friend's house to "pick up a box of dishes to go through" . Usually he says something totally believable then takes off for 12 hours and ignores me. He has done this about once a month for 3 years. Today I feel he is about to do it again and actually PLANNING a binge and to leave me home with the kids on New Year's Eve #BPDPartners #ParanoidThoughts #BorderlinePersonalityDisorder #Advice

My husband thinks I dont appreciate all he does for me but expect him to continuously be grateful to me for the things I do for him.
Which I think is incorrect.
This convo came from:
He recently started blogging and I've been helping him develop it. Today I showed him a blog that I created couple years back and he just complimented it. So I said it upsets me That he doesnt motivate my ideas. He understand it as I am taunting him about all the work I've done for his blog and not getting thanked enough. #living#livingwithbpd #BorderlinePersonalityDisorder #BPDPartners

She posts about how she only wants to be friends and the other she said give me space, I seriously don’t know what to do like I love this core to the very core of my being.....but it hurts.....it hurts so bad that she says and does those things please help #bpdandsober #BorderlinePersonalityDisorder #BPDPartners

If anyone one knows a good way to help communicate with her or things I could do or say that would help me in my situation, I worry about her everything and send her good morning text and good nights and check ins if she ain’t anything, but she leave me on read like if she doesn’t care. #BPD #BPDDiagnosis #BorderlinePersonalityDisorderBPD #bpdandsober #bpddating #bpdchat #BPDPartners

Im trying to find someone I can just lay down my honest emotions with, irrational and reasonable. You can do the same with me of course, just have to have a mutual agreement that whatever we say won’t be used as a judge of overall character. #BPD #BorderlinePersonalityDisorderBPD #BPDDiagnosis #BPDPartners #bpdchat #bpdsymptoms #BPDProblems #Bpdrelationships

#BPDPartners . I am concerned about him and quite honestly, myself. The first 3 times reportedly had nothing to do with me..events related to multiple deployments to Afghanistan. 2-3 days, no contact. Called the crisis line 2/3 times as he has responded to them and called me back. This time we had an argument- I flew out unannounced, because I hadn’’t heard from him in 4 days. He refused to let me in..a mutual friend of ours called him and he reluctantly opened the door. We spoke and resolved to have better communication. I flew back and communication was steady for 4 days. Aiken’s for 9

Untreated BPD partner and I had an argument and she had an outburst and physically came at me. I felt forced to leave the house. She then called me 5 times and texted immediately which I didn’t answer. I waited about 20 minutes and called her back which she ignored. I have not heard from her in 5 days and have sent 3 texts with no response. She is pregnant - What is the best way to handle this with her?

I have been with a bpd woman on and off (of course) for many years. She refuses to seek treatment and is now pregnant. I have 2 daughters from a previous marriage. My bpd girlfriend is currently ghosting me for taking my daughters on a trip while she is pregnant. I am at the end of my rope and trying to figure out what the best case scenario or approach is here.... I love her but cannot sacrifice everything of myself to be with her. She has no connection to my girls and very little ability to connect to my life. Should I try with her? Coparenting? Leave 100% and not be a father to our baby

Hi there - I’m looking for some help. I’m dating a woman who refuses to get treated for bpd, her biggest fear is abandonment but she constantly pushes me away or runs away and fully disconnects when we have a fight. She has serious anger and rage and will sometimes physically attack me which forces me to leave for my own safety. I’m am trying to understand and learn how to help her while not loosing myself or if that is even possible?