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You ARE enough!

You are so welcome here! This is a new community that’s just starting out! We are also on discord, username is kalli_aria3391, shoot me a message and I’ll add you to our community where you can talk to people just like you!
#LQBTQIA #Transgender #IfYouFeelHopeless #hopelessness #Depression #MentalHealth #genderqueer #genderfluid #Bisexual #Tiktok #Insomnia #BipolarDisorder #BipolarDepression #

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Hey everyone! I just wanted to let you know that I am growing a SAFE community on Discord that started from friends I’ve made on TikTok. I felt compelled to start a community where everyone was welcome! If you’d like to join a community that is full of non-judgmental people; message me!!! We would love to have you join us!! LITERALLY EVERYONE IS WELCOME!!!! We will love you and welcome you into our little family!
If you want to check me out, my username on TikTok and Discord are:

TikTok is kalli_aria
Discord: kalli_aria#3391

#LGBTQIA #Bisexual #genderfluid #Transgender #Depression #Tiktok

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Tired of Feeling Invisible

I am tired of not feeling seen, of my truth being assumed and taken for granted.

I am #Bisexual #demisexual #genderfluid — I present as female and I’m married to a man, my lifelong best friend and ally.

I feel like I’m invisible to the #LGBTQIA + community because I married a man and pass for cisgender. I’m tired of feeling like I’m privileged and don’t understand what it means to be queer. I’m tired of feeling like I’m not a welcome part of the community. I can go to a bar or a club with him and people eye me suspiciously like I’m some kind of tourist. I feel like maybe that’s right, like I’m only “part-queer,” or something, so I’m nervous going out in my masculine clothes or talking about my experiences with women or what I find attractive in women or whatever.

My husband’s family is conservative, so I’m not officially out with them, and I’m tired of hearing homophobic jargon with the presumption that it’s fine, they’re not talking about me— because they are. At the same time I don’t want to face a falling out with his parents; I want to be allowed to be myself.

I feel like I’m often treated like an outsider by the group I identify with most and I can’t be myself with his family. I just want to be allowed to feel at home with my own identity. I don’t know if it’s me or the world who’s causing the struggle. I don’t know how to settle into myself.

I suppose I’m mostly looking to be seen and heard and understood the way I am, but also seeking any support, advice, or guidance others may have. I’m also really nervous talking about all of this. I know I have some social anxiety, and I was bullied for my queerness as a kid.


Late nights

When I’m up late most nights I let my mind wonder, yes I know this is bad most of the time. Though I feel sometimes it makes me feel almost normal. When I let my mind wonder it’s almost like gambling, sometimes good, but mostly bad. When it’s good I smile and feel ok, but when it’s bad I feel like everyone/thing hates me. I feel as though nothing matters or that people won’t want to help me. Though I know that’s not true I can’t help but think it.....I know there are so many people who will sit down and talk to me, who won’t just ignore me. Yet I seem to push them away, when It’s late and I begin to cry I push the people I love away the most. I know that’s bad, but I can’t help it, I want them to be happy not worried or sad that I’m not ok. I want to make them smile and laugh. It scares me to reach out to others, but I need to do it more often I really do. I feel like a bad person when I want to reach out, yet I also feel like a bad person when I don’t. Let me explain, when I push people away I don’t respond to them fast enough, I leave them on read. Too scared to respond, as though I’m going to say something that will upset them. But I know deep down that if they really do love me for me they won’t get mad. So I need to try to let down my walls, and let them in. I need to at most try. So yay for me I guess. Though for you the reader, always remember you have people here for you. You are loved by people, and if you don’t think so well I love you. I don’t care if I know you, you are here for a reason, and that reason is not to just come and go. You are unique in your own way, you are amazing in your own way. Don’t let others bring you down just for being yourself. You matter, you are loved, and you are cared for. I love you, stay strong.❤️ #latenight #Anxiety #Depression #Loveislove #betruetoyou #genderfluid

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trying to figure it out

recently I have been doing a lot of research on non-binary and being gender queer. I’ve never felt 100% sure on my sexuality and who I am. I do consider myself bisexual but I don’t feel like that’s it. After doing some research on non binary topics I’ve become more comfortable with that idea. It makes my heart beat faster when I think about it. Something feels right... but at the same time I still feel confused. Maybe it’s the lack of information I could find. it still seems like this is something relatively new. #confused #nonbinary #genderfluid #genderqueer #LGBTQ


questioning myself again #LGBTQ #queer#trans

I recently going through some different labels regarding my gender identity and I think I'm transmasculine and genderqueer so yeah. idk gender is a confusing concept. lol. hope you're having a good day/night #genderqueer #nonbinary #NB #genderfluid #Questioning

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What does it mean if you don't feel comfortable with your mothertongue?

So, I don't know if this has anything to do with my autism, or being genderqueer, or depression, or none of them. But I feel a lot more comfortable in English (talking, thinking, writing) than in my mothertongue(German). Does anyone else experience this? Any ideas what this might mean? #Autism #AspergersSyndrome #GenderIdentity #genderfluid #LGBT #LGBTQIA #Depression