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What do you do when you tell all family members and reach out to get help for mental health problems and they tell you to have you tried not being sad. I even had my mom knowing I'm using a cane, and on bed rest 90% of the time tell me, well you should just clean and do more housework.... As I'm uncontrollably sobbing. I'm just lost in life. I feel like all my hopes and dreams what I loved to do and what I've wanted to do is all gone. I can't even shower because it hurts the pressure to hit my skin. Heading to homeless in.. 12 days. I have still tried to get help. And idk what to do. I honestly just want to lay in a ditch and just give up. #ChronicFatigue #MentalHealth #Anxiety #ChronicIllness #ChronicPain #CheckInWithMe #BorderlinePersonalityDisorder #IfYouFeelHopeless

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I'm NOT okay #Depression #Anxiety #ChronicPain #IfYouFeelHopeless #CheckInWithMe

The past two months I've been having severe breakdowns. I'm going to be homeless October 15th. I'm waiting for disability acceptance. I have no help from parents, no help from distance relatives. I've signed up and called not kidding,over 100 different places and online forms to try to get any help. I am on a cane and can hardly walk. I'm usually on bed rest 99% of the times for I have multiple chronic illnesses. I've reached out to the closest people I have to tell them I'm not okay mentally... Even posted on Facebook to get some kind of even validation of feelings or to be heard and nobody cares. I'm so stressed it's just making my flares worse. I don't even have a winter jacket or any clothes to wear in coldness. I've looked around for places like that to. I have no children so most of them all I get pushed to bottom of all lists. I'm not ok...

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My best Rosie girl who is so dear to me!

Seeing that big grin on her face even as she sleeps makes my whole soul happy 😊

Knowing I can't have children makes my fur children ever more dear.

So many blessings in looking for the light behind the clouds.

I gave her a nickname of Pill because she is what my doctors should have ordered! 🤣

It still makes me laugh when I think of the reason of her nickname. She is also sassy so sometimes she is a pill 😂

When life is hard, humour helps you laugh away that stress and fear!

Rosie always tries to make me laugh so we have a Lot of games that only us two get.

I am very blessed to have this sweet darling by my side 24/7!
We have each other's back and it is a priceless friendship to get to enjoy 💕💖💕💖✨️

#AmplifiedMusculoskeletalPainSyndrome #Arthritis #Asthma #Anxiety #AnkylosingSpondylitis #bedbound #BoneSplints #ChronicFatigueSyndrome #CheckInWithMe #ChronicPain #ChronicIllness #ComplexRegionalPainSyndrome #Depression #Disability #DistractMe #EhlersDanlosSyndrome #Endometriosis #Eczema #Fibromyalgia #GastroesophagealRefluxDisease #Grief #gallstones #HypothyroidismUnderactiveThyroidDisease #Hypersomnia #HighBloodPressure #JuvenileRheumatoidArthritis #Insomnia #PosturalOrthostaticTachycardiaSyndrome #PTSD #Psoriasis #PsoriaticArthritis #Psychosis #PanicAttack #PanicAttacks #plantarfasciitis #MentalHealth #MightyPets #MightyTogether #Migraine #Upallnight #IfYouFeelHopeless #RareDisease #RheumatoidArthritis #SuicidalThoughts #Scoliosis #Sleepwalking #sciatica #ShinSplints #WakingNightmares

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All throughout childhood and teenage years I have been so misunderstood.

So many adults being mean or cruel because they didn't realize how serious my pain is and was.

Life has been so hard as I have worked hard to stand up for myself because no one else would.

I have struggled with being angry that my parents ever brought me into this existence where every bad health condition on both sides of my family combined in me to maximize misery. Only recently did we learn that at 17 I had arthritis and still do. Genes and environment have worked cruelly together to bring about as many health issues as possible.

Having SO MANY health problems and things to deal with into the hundreds of symptoms has made it so I have had to work incredibly hard to keep wanting to live.

Today my mom said: Can I just tell you how sorry I am you have the body you do?

Suddenly it was like a balm was put on my soul and I had incredible relief after suffering so much these past years.

Vindication is something I crave after all these years of being overlooked and misjudged and so misunderstood.

Today is a good day Mighty friends ❤️❤️❤️

#AmplifiedMusculoskeletalPainSyndrome #Arthritis #Asthma #Anxiety #AnkylosingSpondylitis #bedbound #BoneSplints #ChronicFatigueSyndrome #CheckInWithMe #ChronicPain #ChronicIllness #ComplexRegionalPainSyndrome #Depression #Disability #DistractMe #EhlersDanlosSyndrome #Endometriosis #Fibromyalgia #GastroesophagealRefluxDisease #Grief #HypothyroidismUnderactiveThyroidDisease #Hypersomnia #HighBloodPressure #Headache #Insomnia #JuvenileRheumatoidArthritis #Lymphedema #MentalHealth #MemoryLoss #MightyTogether #Migraine #PosturalOrthostaticTachycardiaSyndrome #PTSD #Psoriasis #PsoriaticArthritis #plantarfasciitis #PanicAttacks #PanicAttack #Psychosis #RareDisease #RheumatoidArthritis #musclespasms #MultipleAutoimmuneSyndrome #IfYouFeelHopeless #Upallnight #SuicidalThoughts #Scoliosis #sciatica #ShinSplints

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It takes me days after an appointment to be rested up especially with my chronic fatigue.

After a few months of appointments I quickly reach the point where I am so sick of them and I stop wanting to even answer my phone let alone go to appointments and go through the hoops of anything and everything medical. A short lifetime of constant appointments at least weekly since I was 13 and now being 29 I Have to plan rewards after my appointments or I don't even want to go in the waiting rooms. Now that I am older I purposely take weeks off of appointments though I prefer months off not that I ever get a full month off *sigh*

Anyone else get sick of appointments too?

If I have an appointment with a terrible doctor( even a lifetime of Dr appointments and I have only had 10 good ones from cardiologists to pain doctors to primary care physicians) my quota reaches my limit super fast. My psychosis was started and keeps happening with anything to do with bad doctors.

It is based on feeling I have no control in my life and rarely ever have. Being unable to live on my own, have a job, or even drive has significantly worsened my psychosis.

Though I have found that doing artistic things helps me feel more in control and makes me happy yo be who I am.

Oh how little health people know about the lives we live!

#AmplifiedMusculoskeletalPainSyndrome #Arthritis #Asthma #Anxiety #AnkylosingSpondylitis #bedbound #BoneSplints #ChronicFatigueSyndrome #CheckInWithMe #ChronicPain #ChronicIllness #ComplexRegionalPainSyndrome #Upallnight #IfYouFeelHopeless #Depression #Disability #DistractMe #EhlersDanlosSyndrome #Endometriosis #Fibromyalgia #GastroesophagealRefluxDisease #Grief #HypothyroidismUnderactiveThyroidDisease #Hypersomnia #HighBloodPressure #Headache #Insomnia #JuvenileRheumatoidArthritis #Lymphedema #MentalHealth #MightyTogether #MemoryLoss #MightyTogether #PosturalOrthostaticTachycardiaSyndrome #PTSD #Psoriasis #PsoriaticArthritis #Psychosis #PanicAttack #PanicAttacks #plantarfasciitis #RareDisease #RheumatoidArthritis #SuicidalThoughts #Scoliosis #sciatica #ShinSplints

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“Once You Choose Hope, Anything Is Possible.”

When you really think about it, it makes sense.

Anything really good is also possible.

Once you train yourself in the mindset of hope.

“Hope is a way of thinking,” says Chan Hellman, a psychologist who’s the founding director of the Hope Research Center at the University of Oklahoma. “We know it can be taught; we know it can be nurtured. It’s not something you either have or don’t have.”

Yes, there are hope researchers!
And hope is talked about in psychology and is incorporated into new therapy techniques!

“Hope begets hope, and it has such a significant protective factor.”

A protective factor against the development of chronic anxiety. Michael (2000) found that hope correlates significantly and negatively with anxiety, while also protecting against perceptions of vulnerability, uncontrollability, and unpredictability.

As psychologist and renowned hope researcher Charles Snyder et al. (2002, p. 269) stated so eloquently:

“A rainbow is a prism that sends shards of multicolored light in various directions. It lifts our spirits and makes us think of what is possible. Hope is the same – a personal rainbow of the mind.”

“The strategies of positive psychology give primacy to increasing wellbeing, rather than ‘treating’ illness.

Hope Therapy is borne from pure positive psychology. Rather than focusing on unpleasant or distressing factors, Hope Therapy techniquesincorporates positive self-talking, hopeful imagination, and connections with supportive networks (Shekarabi-Ahari, Younesi, Borjali, & Ansari-Damavandi, 2012).”

“According to Crocker (1998) hope therapy helps improve satisfaction, resilience, and levels of depression by effectively creating a positive cognitive triad; that is a positive view of yourself, of the world and of the future.”

“Furthermore, hope therapy can encourage individuals with a history of depression or unpleasant past experiences to contemplate the future in a more positive way rather than as a projection of previous experience (Santos et al., 2013).”

“Hope is more than just a simple emotion; hope is an essential life tool.”

For the resources given to therapists to help people utilize this essential life tool, you can go to this link and find worksheets, science-based activities/exercises, 4 recommended books, and a deeper dive into this psychology topic, and more:

What is Hope in Psychology + 7 Exercises & Worksheets

#MentalHealth #Anxiety #Depression #Disability #MajorDepressiveDisorder #GeneralizedAnxietyDisorder #ChronicIllness #IfYouFeelHopeless #Selfharm #Selfcare #Grief #BipolarDisorder #BipolarDepression #ChronicFatigue #SuicidalIdeation #SuicidalThoughts #SuicideAttemptSurvivors #Suicide #PTSD #ComplexPosttraumaticStressDisorder #Trauma #Fibromyalgia #ChronicFatigueSyndrome #SocialAnxiety #Loneliness #Headache #Migraine #Caregiving

What is Hope in Psychology + 7 Exercises & Worksheets

Hope therapy encourages individuals to contemplate a better future.
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Divine Guidance

Many journeys I have traveled,
Many blessings I have seen.
Spiritual awakenings, unraveled.
Sights and wonders in between.

Many journeys, darkness followed,
Many journeys, hope was lost.
Every journey, a lesson hallowed,
With God’s grace and mercy, he paid the cost.

Burdens I no longer have to carry,
My past is dead and gone.
Rest your head sweet child, don’t tarry.
Your journey ends in a new song.

Carry with you my light,
I have instilled in you.
This battle is not yours to fight.
It’s meant to be pursued.

In due time all sufferings will be revealed,
Your purpose from me will have meaning.
What’s in the dark will be healed,
All scars will be gone, leaving you beaming.

Copyright by: Jenny Frye. August 15, 2024. All rights reserved.

#MentalHealth #encouragement #BackPain #IfYouFeelHopeless #ChronicIllness #PTSD #Depression #ItsOKMan

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