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I encountered a transphobic jackass on Facebook and boy howdy I had plenty to say

How much do I love random transphobic strangers deciding it's necessary to point out I'm a man with boobs. Like ok douchefuck, you've got your head so far up your ass but imma let you know I think you're a yucky redacted with WiFi and try to have a good day despite the fact that someone thought it was a good idea to give you Internet access.
And in a group for disability support no less. Because THAT makes sense.
Yes I'm a man with boobs.
Is it the end of the world?
Does my gender identity cause spontaneous nasal combustion or testicles to fall out?
Does my sexual identity make babies turn out to sell cutco knives in their teens or join cults?
God, wouldn't that be wild. I'm pretty sure I don't have the power to ruin another person's identity simply by existing.
Of course, anyone living on a fencepost can talk to me about their inner truths and I won't judge or dismiss. I am all about compassionate acceptance and love of and for my community who tends to be my family of choice. I will defend my identity to the end of me. I will stand up for my community until my dying breath.
And I think that is all I want to say about me.
#Transgender #LGBT
And a follow up note... I am a defender of minorities who doesn't use identity to hurt people. One person accused me of being racist.
Humans, all of us, are descendants of monkeys. All of us. We've evolved. But people who are cave dwelling neanderthals who cling to prejudice are just knuckle draggers. Got a problem with my perspective? Try being in my shoes with a history of being a rape survivor and having weapons drawn on me in public for being trans. And that's just the "trauma lite" version of the story of Nox.

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I encountered a transphobic jackass on Facebook and boy howdy I had plenty to say

How much do I love random transphobic strangers deciding it's necessary to point out I'm a man with boobs. Like ok douchefuck, you've got your head so far up your ass but imma let you know I think you're a yucky redacted with WiFi and try to have a good day despite the fact that someone thought it was a good idea to give you Internet access.
And in a group for disability support no less. Because THAT makes sense.
Yes I'm a man with boobs.
Is it the end of the world?
Does my gender identity cause spontaneous nasal combustion or testicles to fall out?
Does my sexual identity make babies turn out to sell cutco knives in their teens or join cults?
God, wouldn't that be wild. I'm pretty sure I don't have the power to ruin another person's identity simply by existing.
Of course, anyone living on a fencepost can talk to me about their inner truths and I won't judge or dismiss. I am all about compassionate acceptance and love of and for my community who tends to be my family of choice. I will defend my identity to the end of me. I will stand up for my community until my dying breath.
And I think that is all I want to say about me.
#Transgender #LGBT
And a follow up note... I am a defender of minorities who doesn't use identity to hurt people. One person accused me of being racist.
Humans, all of us, are descendants of monkeys. All of us. We've evolved. But people who are cave dwelling neanderthals who cling to prejudice are just knuckle draggers. Got a problem with my perspective? Try being in my shoes with a history of being a rape survivor and having weapons drawn on me in public for being trans. And that's just the "trauma lite" version of the story of Nox.

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Happy Pride

Everyone has mental health. Taking care of your mental health is how we have the strength to be there for others. Take a look at NAMI-NYC's free support group for LGBTQ+ where you can share your experiences with others who understand you: naminyc.org/lgbtq

#MentalHealth #LGBTQ

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Happy Pride

Everyone has mental health. Taking care of your mental health is how we have the strength to be there for others. Take a look at NAMI-NYC's free support group for LGBTQ+ where you can share your experiences with others who understand you: naminyc.org/lgbtq

#MentalHealth #LGBTQ

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Brave Together: A Courage & Connection Workshop

🌈 You don’t have to navigate mental health alone. Join us and Vibrant Emotional Health for ‘Brave Together,’ a free workshop for LGBTQ+ youth focused on connection, community, and emotional wellness. Come as you are and join us for an affirming space to talk, reflect, and support one another. 💜

📅 June 11

⏰ 6:00–7:30 PM, virtually

Register here: www.eventbrite.com/e/brave-together-a-courage-connection-wor...

#MentalHealth #LGBTQ #workshop

Brave Together: A Courage & Connection Workshop

Get ready to dive into a fun workshop for LGBTQ+ Youth about building courage and making real connections with others.
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Brave Together: A Courage & Connection Workshop

🌈 You don’t have to navigate mental health alone. Join us and Vibrant Emotional Health for ‘Brave Together,’ a free workshop for LGBTQ+ youth focused on connection, community, and emotional wellness. Come as you are and join us for an affirming space to talk, reflect, and support one another. 💜

📅 June 11

⏰ 6:00–7:30 PM, virtually

Register here: www.eventbrite.com/e/brave-together-a-courage-connection-wor...

#MentalHealth #LGBTQ #workshop

Brave Together: A Courage & Connection Workshop

Get ready to dive into a fun workshop for LGBTQ+ Youth about building courage and making real connections with others.
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LGBTQ+ Virtual Support Group! 1st and 3rd Thursday of the month, 6 to 7:30pm ET

LGBTQ+ virtual support group is for people who identify as LGBTQ+ and are living with mental illness or any mental health challenge. Develop coping skills, share common experiences, gain self-advocacy skills, and find community.

đŸ’» If you'd like more information or would like to join, you can find the link here. Virtual groups are every 1st and 3rd Thursday of the month, 6 to 7:30pm Eastern Standard Time. Closed captioning is available: naminycmetro.org/programs/lgbtq

If you have any questions, feel free to comment below!

#LGBTQ #CheckInWithMe #MentalHealth #Depression #Anxiety #BorderlinePersonalityDisorder #ObsessiveCompulsiveDisorder #PTSD #ComplexPosttraumaticStressDisorder #BipolarDisorder

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LGBTQ+ Virtual Support Group! 1st and 3rd Thursday of the month, 6 to 7:30pm ET

LGBTQ+ virtual support group is for people who identify as LGBTQ+ and are living with mental illness or any mental health challenge. Develop coping skills, share common experiences, gain self-advocacy skills, and find community.

đŸ’» If you'd like more information or would like to join, you can find the link here. Virtual groups are every 1st and 3rd Thursday of the month, 6 to 7:30pm Eastern Standard Time. Closed captioning is available: naminycmetro.org/programs/lgbtq

If you have any questions, feel free to comment below!

#LGBTQ #CheckInWithMe #MentalHealth #Depression #Anxiety #BorderlinePersonalityDisorder #ObsessiveCompulsiveDisorder #PTSD #ComplexPosttraumaticStressDisorder #BipolarDisorder

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If there's anyone awake

I am feeling very alone and broken. I had some bullshit on Facebook today that really upset me. And just when I thought it was done I got a comment that said "I'm not sure why you think anyone would message you". I got a few random DM today, one from someone who claimed he could cure my transgender issues cuz he's Muslim and his faith doesn't believe people can be trans.
Thank goodness nobody has figured out I'm a puppy. . I might not share my cookies if they're mean..
#LGBT #Transgender #SupportGroups

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If there's anyone awake

I am feeling very alone and broken. I had some bullshit on Facebook today that really upset me. And just when I thought it was done I got a comment that said "I'm not sure why you think anyone would message you". I got a few random DM today, one from someone who claimed he could cure my transgender issues cuz he's Muslim and his faith doesn't believe people can be trans.
Thank goodness nobody has figured out I'm a puppy. . I might not share my cookies if they're mean..
#LGBT #Transgender #SupportGroups

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