Liver Cancer

Years ago I met this guy. We hit it off. Well turns out I was one of many. The main one left him and he stayed with me. Well I was just the new main one with multiple others in the background. Some knew about me, others didn’t. This last year he was diagnosed with liver cancer. He had the surgery done and I found out he had never stopped with the multiple other background people. I was going to leave. But I told myself I’d stay until he had recovered. The last 8 months have been rocky with his health, but he’s basically better. He had told me when he had almost died from sepsis and a collapsed lung that it made him realize he only wanted to be with me. Well I guess that wasn’t true. After he got home even while not fully recovered he was still finding new back ground people to be with. All while I took care of the bills and made sure he was doing okay. Now I’m on the verge of just saying goodbye to everyone in my life and leaving this world. But I feel so dumb even thinking of that as an option.

#Anxiety I have been a victim of verbal,mental abuse for years from family members,boyfriends that some how my brain has accepted it.They say they are sorry and maneuver their way back into your life.I have shook in fear,got in my car with no destination.I guess it's to run from it.

I am trying very hard to get my ducks in a row to leave.This time itd a bit difficult as he was recently diagnosed with stage 4 liver cancer.He has started his chemo and it seems the rage has escalated to a point where he yelled (on the front lawn)to get the f..
out...I need alot of support and guidance hence have few friends now as they have given up as I still have not left.My family is estranged unless they need money.

I have faith God will keep me focused and strong but...

Hi, my name is Annie_73. I'm here because my husband has just been diagnosed with Stage 2 Liver Cancer

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At the very beginning of this year, we lost our next door neighbor suddenly. It was a shock because he was so present and always busy doing something in his yard and was friendly and welcoming. I was sick for Mother's Day so I was bedridden but received a text message from my Aunt Siri--not knowing she was in the hospital--she died two days later. September 5th I lost my 70 YO father. As his only child, all preparations and decisions were up to me with zero instructions on what to do. The day before my father's funeral, my son's best friend comitted suicide. This 21 YO young man has been apart of our family for over 10 years and now he's gone. Then I had a good friend that passed away from a rare cancer and now my neighbor across the street is dying of liver cancer--the same cancer that killed my mother January 2nd of 2009. I just want this year to be over with so very badly. I feel like the hits just keep on coming and I'm looking for solace--mostly drinking wine and going to work. I've behaved badly. My 3 children (all grown now) still live at home and some days we are at each other's throats. It's been too much and my husband has zero idea how to be of service. Sigh....

Hi, my name is Patty, I am a Death Doula with a terminal diagnosis who is passionate about sharing the story of my 70 years looking at the traumas that cause disease and how we can write ourselves out of our pain to craft a new journey of joy before we have to leave this life.

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My sister is dying from cancer. It has progressed to the point the the hospital sent her home with hospice to die comfortably in her home. I'm anger and sad and scared. How do I do this life without my big sister? 💔 who will listen when I am down and make no sense? Who will advise me and tell me its going to be okay? She is too young to die she is only 59.Her older years have been stolen from her. I'm unbelievably broken hearted! I don't want her to go yet I had to give her my permission 😫 and tell her not to worry about me. She told me so calmly over the phone that she wasn't going to get any better and wouldn't be talking to my again. What choice did I have but to tell her it was okay. #Cancer #Depression #Loss #LiverCancer TerminalCancer

Hi all,

I need some help today. My husband and I both struggle with anxiety and depression, and recently, my father in law’s alcholism has taken a turn for the worse. He isn’t working right now, and we found out that he’s just been drinking all day alone at home. He calls my husband drunk and lies about his drinking. He was put into two programs within a month, and left after 3 days. He does not want to get help and has admitted that to my husband.

I think the hardest part is that he called everyone in the family lying about having liver cancer. We legitimately thought he was going to need serious treatment, but then we discovered he lied about the whole thing.

I know that recovery is a long, lifetime process, and we are trying my best to support my father in law. However, does anyone have advice for supporting my husband? My husband is wrecked with the idea that his father is unwilling to get help and lied about having cancer. What do you say or do to help? #Alcoholism #Advice #Depression