#Depression #toxicfamily #Anxiety #Family #Bullying
I am living in a house owned by my parents. But I don't live for free: I pay for services (water, electricity, internet, phone, more expenses, etc.), I buy groceries, I clean the house, I take care of my parents by going with them to their doctors' appointments, etc.
I don't owe my sister and her husband any disclosure about what I provide to this house, and I never do it because is not their business, they are not my bosses.
They find the chance to tell bully comments implying that I am a drag on my parents, and a failure because I live here.
Yesterday my mother told a comment that time is not enough for her, immediately my sister looked at me and asked me in a mock way: Why does my mom don't have enough time? Does she have to take you to kindergarten?
Of course, I told her "stop, stop telling me that kind of comment." Of course, as the bully she is, she told that it "is just a joke."
Later my mother told me that I shouldn't pay attention to these comments, and I replied to her: so, she has the right and she can mind to tell me those comments, but shouldn't I have the right to defend myself against them?
The only thing I am sure of is, the day I leave this house, I won't stop supporting financially this house, because I know my parent's retirement money is low.
For 100000 times, she is the victim, the offended, and I am the ogre :(