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Scientists Find New Evidence Linking Epstein-Barr Virus to MS

In 2022, a team at Harvard University provided the strongest evidence to date that the Epstein Barr Virus (EBV) is a trigger for MS. Now, an international team reports that CD4+ T cells (an important immune cell involved in MS) from people with MS respond about twice as strongly to specific EBV proteins produced during active viral infection compared with people without MS. These heightened responses were not seen for other common viruses, suggesting a unique relationship between EBV and MS.

www.nationalmssociety.org/news-and-magazine/news/link-ebv-ms

#MultipleSclerosis #MightyTogether

Empowering people affected by MS to live their best lives

The National Multiple Sclerosis Society exists because there are people with MS. Our vision is a world free of MS.
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Hi, my name is PAWidow2024. I'm here because I want a safe place to talk about my suicidal thoughts without there being any danger of being "reported" and thrown into an institutional mental health situation. I've had thoughts about and wishes to exit the planet since I was a young girl (I'm now in my late 60s) but relationships have always kept me from it. Now, after the death of my sweet husband of 32 years, I have no close relationships to keep me here. No children or grandchildren, no close friends. I live in an area where I don't fit it very well (I'm non-religious, left-leaning and childless) so all my efforts to date to find "friends" have not worked out. Also, I'm essentially a loner/introvert so that impacts my friend-making efforts too. I just really think I would benefit, though, from being able to candidly discuss my current thoughts with someone who can understand all these different factors.

#MightyTogether

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Learning to Enjoy Food

For as long as I can remember, food was always my enemy. It wasn’t about nourishment. I can’t even say I enjoyed it. Food was a bribe. Trickery. Quid pro quo. I give you treats and you do something for me. After years of this, I surrendered. I conformed. I was like a trained animal. And I thought I was being a good girl. Pretty soon, food started to fill the emptiness. And it was my only friend. I didn’t have any self esteem. Going through therapy these last 8 years has raised my self worth. I’m learning to have a healthy relationship with food. I make healthier choices. I enjoy what I’m eating. I’ve lost over a hundred pounds in 15 months. I feel great, and people tell me I look good too. I believe food is meant to be enjoyed. Bon appetit!

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How to stop wanting love from people

I have been getting cognitive issues with my mind that makes me think that I want love and care from people and from communities (like discord) it always gets me to the point of feeling unvalued or everyone hates me and wanting a partner if my best friend has one, and I always feel like I might get rejected due to it

#Anxiety #relationship #Rejection #MentalHealth

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How to stop wanting love from people

I have been getting cognitive issues with my mind that makes me think that I want love and care from people and from communities (like discord) it always gets me to the point of feeling unvalued or everyone hates me and wanting a partner if my best friend has one, and I always feel like I might get rejected due to it

#Anxiety #relationship #Rejection #MentalHealth

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Not easy

It’s crazy to me, the assumptions that people automatically make when I divulge that I’m a Christian.

That it was simply the path of least resistance. That I was born into a church-going home and adopted viewpoints that I never questioned. That I’m sheltered, close-minded, and would surely leave the faith if I’d open my eyes.

The truth is, becoming a Christian went against everything my parents taught me. I lost all of my friends. My high school creative writing teacher tried to de-convert me. Nothing in my environment supported my decision. It was hard. I have never regretted it.

I taught a mini sermon on The Book of Ruth Saturday for leadership class at church. What struck me was how Ruth left everything comfortable and familiar in Moab to follow Naomi and be with God’s people. Naomi begged her to stay back. She wanted to spare Ruth the isolation and rejection she would surely face.

Of course, Ruth’s story has a miraculous, very happy ending. But what if she was an outcast in Bethlehem, and died lonely? That would be so sad. But ultimately, she would gain a reward in eternity that would never have happened if she stayed back with Orpah in Moab.

My son shared a message with me today by a woman named Farmer Girl on Facebook. This passage especially struck me:

“Following Christ may cost you comfort. It may cost you popularity. It may cost you opportunities, relationships, or dreams you thought your life would include. For many believers around the world, it still costs their freedom and even their lives.

But it will never cost more than Christ is worth.

The safest place you will ever be is not the place with the fewest problems.

It is the place where you are faithfully walking with the One who has overcome the world.”

#Bipolar #Depression #GAD #OCD # PTSD

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This week/weekend we have really fun plans

Wednesday is Pauley's birthday. I'm taking her out for dinner at Outback Steakhouse. It's one of her favorite restaurants. I'm really craving steak.
Saturday we're taking the bus to downtown Detroit for the Edgar Allen poe speakeasy event. After the speakeasy, we're gonna order a Lyft to take us to my favorite Caribbean restaurant in Detroit. It's only a 15 minute drive. I'm gonna get the lobster, Jamaican rice, and fried plantains. Oh gosh I'm so excited just thinking about it. Right now I am a pavlovian puppy. Awooooooof!
If you're in a relationship, and you are struggling with the dynamics, my best advice is to actively date your partner. Make fond memories. Take silly pictures. It matters.
Pauley and I had a rough Friday night after a really nice afternoon. I went to bed angry. But the next night Pauley came up behind me and put her arms around me and said she loves me. So we didn't talk out the problem this time. First time in 2 years. But our love was stronger than our argument.
The next 4 months are going to be torture. But I'm excited.

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