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This Weekend WE are going to practice something special TOGETHER 😄🙌🦋

And then, we will all Keep Doing This VITAL, easy, short practice.

One of the many things I learned from the “Resilience Skills” University online course I took that I keep teaching you about here only in this group is that Resilience Needs Mindfulness.

And, 1 of the first things to learn about Mindfulness is how to practice conscious breathing and why.

Mindfulness conscious breathing exercise to practice daily 3 or 4 times—
In/Out: This is the first practice on Conscious Breathing:

breathe in (a good, deep inhale), and say or think “I know that I am breathing in”,
breathe out (a longer, full exhale), and say or think “I know that I am breathing out”

After a while of practicing this, you can shorten the cue words to saying or thinking simply “In” on the Inhale, and “Out” on the Exhale.

“When we continue to practice like this, something wonderful happens—-we stop the thinking.
This is already a miracle happening because when we think too much, we are not truly ourselves. But this way, our mind and our body becomes aligned/in the same place; instead of our body here but our mind is elsewhere— in the past or in the future.

If we practice breathing in and out with some concentration, we attain what is called the oneness of body and mind.
The body and mind are unified and you begin to be there truly yourself.

When you are not really there, you cannot see things clearly and deeply. You miss everything, everything seems to you not clear, vague.”

Running to the future or going back to the past- you miss life, that is only here in the present moment.

Breathing in and out consciously is how to get back to the present moment.

What you are looking for —joy, inner peace, freedom …is all in the present moment.

If you feel agitated and not solid, vulnerable, breakable — then you practice this in order to get solid again:

Practice sitting in a stable position and practice breathing in and out. Saying “breathing in, I see myself as a mountain, breathing out I feel solid.

From time to time, a very strong emotion overwhelms us. That emotion could be anger or despair or fear. And when we are overwhelmed by a strong emotion we feel very vulnerable, like we may die, But we are more than our emotions. We are more solid than we think. And therefore, practicing being solid like a mountain is very helpful.

Source: Thich Nhat Hahn’s The Art of Mindful Living (read by the great man himself on YouTube — I am always so calmed by his voice even.)

#Mindfulness #MentalHealth #Selfcare #Depression #Anxiety #GeneralizedAnxietyDisorder #MajorDepressiveDisorder #PersistentDepressiveDisorder #MoodDisorders #PTSD #PTSDSupportAndRecovery #Agoraphobia #ComplexPosttraumaticStressDisorder #Trauma #BipolarDisorder #BipolarDepression #AnorexiaNervosa #Addiction #EatingDisorders #Selfharm #SuicidalIdeation #SuicidalThoughts #Grief #Suicide #Fibromyalgia #ChronicPain #ChronicIllness #CerebralPalsy #Cancer #MultipleSclerosis #BorderlinePersonalityDisorder #ADHD #ObsessiveCompulsiveDisorder #PanicAttacks #PanicAttack #ChronicFatigue #ChronicFatigueSyndrome #MyCondition #Relationships #FamilyAndFriends #RareDisease #RheumatoidArthritis #Arthritis #CrohnsDisease #NarcissisticPersonalityDisorder #Caregiving #SocialAnxiety

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Accepting disharmony

It’s natural to crave harmony—we want things to feel right, balanced, and in control. But the truth is, life isn’t always harmonious, and striving for perfection often creates anxiety. Try reframing discomfort as an opportunity for growth, practice self-compassion by allowing yourself to feel uneasy without judgment, and lean into manageable challenges, like speaking your truth or stepping outside your comfort zone. When we stop resisting disharmony, we discover that peace comes not from control, but from acceptance.

How will you embrace life’s imperfections today? Let’s support each other in finding peace amidst the chaos.

Also, I make mental health video responses to many of your questions. The latest one is about how to hold on to happy emotions. The lesson is about the importance of allowing life to flow and give yourself permission to flow with it. If this sounds useful to you, you can check out the video by clicking on the link below:

www.instagram.com/thomas_of_copenhagen

Otherwise, if you have any questions about mental health, please post in my group or comment below and I will make a video response specifically for you.

~ Thanks to all. Thanks for all. ~

#MentalHealth #MentalHealth #Depression #Anxiety #BipolarDisorder #BorderlinePersonalityDisorder #Addiction #dissociativedisorders #ObsessiveCompulsiveDisorder #ADHD #Fibromyalgia #EhlersDanlosSyndrome #PTSD #Cancer #RareDisease #Disability #Autism #Diabetes #EatingDisorders #ChronicIllness #ChronicPain #RheumatoidArthritis #Suicide #MightyTogether

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Not going so well…

I’m so upset! I got a small cold right before the holidays and it seemingly went away until a few days ago it came back with a vengeance. I’ve been hacking up a lung and can hardly breathe. I also have this gross sore inside of my nostril that only getting worse. It’s a throbbing persistent pain I originally thought was from all of the congestion and blowing of my nose, but anything I’ve tried to use to help this pain isn’t working. And the internet isn’t helping because it’s pretty much telling me it’s cancer, the last few times I’ve been to my general doctor she’s gaslit me into saying all my problems can be resolved with nature. I’m still dealing with painful bowl attacks and have nearly crapped myself several times since then.

So obviously I’m not in a great headspace due to this cold combined with all of my mental health issues.

All of this reached ahead today during the packer game, my one aunt has been on this washing hands kick because apparently her husband and son do not. I was talking to another one of my aunts and jokingly told her that I spit in her shower gel I gave her for Christmas. The first aunt who wasn’t listening to our conversation and going on and on about how our hands are so dirty immediately started in saying that I could kill her by doing that and I should know better. I asked her when she was taking a shower at the second aunts house because last time I checked shower gel isn’t used to wash hands.

Instead of apologizing she just continued to aggressively argue this point about hand washing.

This aunt is currently dealing with terminal cancer, however she’s always been very rude and callous even before her cancer diagnosis. So no it’s hard to feel bad for someone who’s so cruel.

I’m upset because once again my mom just let her belittle me and didn’t stop her at all. Neither did my other aunt. I’ve talked at nauseaum with my therapist about how this first aunts attitude has always affected negatively and how my family just lets her get away with it. I’m pissed. I’ve been dealing with serious mental health issues for months as well as a suicidal attempt. My depression is at an all time low. So her rude comments are not acceptable nor appropriate.

I want to figure out a way of talking with my family members about how they can better help with this situations because I’m at my wits end here. Either they tell my aunt to knock it off or I’ll simply stop coming around. I’m not their punching bag and I don’t appreciate everyone ignoring these snide comments.

Anyone know how I can talk with my family about this?

#CheckInWithMe #Depression #MajorDepressiveDisorder #SuicidalThoughts #Suicide #FamilyAndFriends

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How to hold on to happy emotions.

Hey everyone, my latest mental health video is about how to hold on to happy emotions. The lesson is about the importance of allowing life to flow and give yourself permission to flow with it. If this sounds useful to you, check it out by clicking on the link below:

www.instagram.com/thomas_of_copenhagen

Also, if you have any questions about mental health, please comment below or send me a private message, and I will make a video response just for you.

~ Thanks to all. Thanks for all. ~

#MentalHealth #MentalHealth #Depression #Anxiety #BipolarDisorder #BorderlinePersonalityDisorder #Addiction #dissociativedisorders #ObsessiveCompulsiveDisorder #ADHD #Fibromyalgia #EhlersDanlosSyndrome #PTSD #Cancer #RareDisease #Disability #Autism #Diabetes #EatingDisorders #ChronicIllness #ChronicPain #RheumatoidArthritis #Suicide #MightyTogether

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Benign

You're a tumor on my soul

Embraced by my blood and body as my own

Given nourishment and energy

Your traces undetectable at first

But now it's too late to remove you

Or treat the symptoms

You take my energy without care

You take my love and tears in pair

You take my anger and lay it bare

You're a cancer, of that I'm sure

Not something benign that I can cure

I was broken up with in not a great way about two weeks ago. This poem is addressing how I know it's over, but I feel her traces everywhere. I originally like the idea of it being about a ghost, something invisible and non-tangible. But I went with the idea of a tumor because of the real physical detriments it has on my mental and physical health. I've always struggled with processing my emotions and this is one of the few ways where I feel as though I'm being heard, and that I'm properly expressing myself. Critiques and comments are always welcome, Happy New Years!

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Focus on breathing

Your breath is a natural anchor because it is always present to help you find calm amidst the chaos. When your mind feels cluttered, pause and focus on the rhythm of your breathing. Try this: inhale deeply for four counts, hold for four, and exhale for six. As you do, notice how your thoughts quiet and your body relaxes. This simple act shifts your focus from racing thoughts to the present moment, creating a space of clarity and peace.

How will you practice mindful breathing today? Let’s share and support each other in finding stillness through our breath.

Also, I make mental health video responses to many of your questions. The last one I made was about what to do if you have difficulty finding time to be productive. The lesson is about how to manage time better and prioritize yourself. If this sounds useful to you, you can check out the video by clicking on the link below:

www.instagram.com/thomas_of_copenhagen

Otherwise, if you have any questions about mental health, please post in my group or comment below and I will make a video response specifically for you.

~ Thanks to all. Thanks for all. ~

#MentalHealth #MentalHealth #Depression #Anxiety #BipolarDisorder #BorderlinePersonalityDisorder #Addiction #dissociativedisorders #ObsessiveCompulsiveDisorder #ADHD #Fibromyalgia #EhlersDanlosSyndrome #PTSD #Cancer #RareDisease #Disability #Autism #Diabetes #EatingDisorders #ChronicIllness #ChronicPain #RheumatoidArthritis #Suicide #MightyTogether

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Do you have difficulty finding time to be productive?

Hey everyone, my latest mental health video is about what to do if you have difficulty finding time to be productive. The lesson is about how to manage time better and prioritize yourself. If this sounds useful to you, check it out by clicking on the link below:

www.instagram.com/thomas_of_copenhagen

Also, if you have any questions about mental health, please comment below or send me a private message, and I will make a video response just for you.

~ Thanks to all. Thanks for all. ~

#MentalHealth #MentalHealth #Depression #Anxiety #BipolarDisorder #BorderlinePersonalityDisorder #Addiction #dissociativedisorders #ObsessiveCompulsiveDisorder #ADHD #Fibromyalgia #EhlersDanlosSyndrome #PTSD #Cancer #RareDisease #Disability #Autism #Diabetes #EatingDisorders #ChronicIllness #ChronicPain #RheumatoidArthritis #Suicide #MightyTogether

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