Quick info about my oldest daughter! She was diagnosed with ADHD, Learning disabilities, and a few other things. Which has lead her to be bullied and taken advantage of most of her life. It got bad to the point she tried to commit suicide and was in the hospital for 2 months.
When your daughter goes through so much, it's not just a toll on her it is a toll on the whole family.
She graduated, got help and is a apprentice in the hair industry. I am so proud of her, she has come a long way!
I was happy she found a really good friend, she was done school and hear I thought I was done fighting bullies but nope. Since than I had to help her fight off a employer who harrassed her during a hardship of putting our family dog down, a employee who is jealous and now a ex best friend of hers who we are like grieving for someone we though was an awesome person!
My body with this stress is going into flare!
This last time, her so called best friend was to help each other out by paying my daughter to clean her apartment.
Well they didn't end up paying her, treating her like poo, making messes while my daughter cleaned and expected her to clean up after them. My daughter ended up coming home in tears and left her jacket at her house with work keys. Long story short, try to steal jacket, got jacket back, stole work keys, got police involved, tried to get my daughter in trouble with work, gave the key back and we though perfect we can be done with them. Blocked numbers, social media accounts.
Nope, called from different numbers, made different accounts to bug my daughter again about some headphones that was given to my daughter before all of this. My daughter called me from work and I told her to reply they can come get them when she get home.
Had some big man pull up to my house with other people in it, to pick up these headphones and I told him he will have to come back later or tomorrow to get them because my daughter is at work. Well he started calling me names and threatened me with the police, I told him to get off my property and called the police. They asked him to leave and I can contact him a better time to pick up the headphones.
When does this stuff stop? Why couldn't he be just an adult and say hey can you message me when a good time is to pick up the headphones? These girls continued to harrass my daughter after the police left.
There is absolutely nothing legally we can do to stop these girls. Nothing! Even during all the years of being bullied by the same kids for 7 years, nothing! The law always seems to protect the bullies more so their victims!
After this if they continue after these headphones the only thing I can do is go down to the courthouse and try to get a civilian retraining order!
Just no energy for this anymore!
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